Should I hang out with this guy?

Question

This guy goes to a school near mine and he added me on facebook. I never met him before but we started talking online and he seemed pretty nice. He asked for my cell number so I gave to him and he texted me to see if we could hang sometime, so I said sure. We've been texting a lot and he seems nice. I had previously asked my friend who goes to his school about him, and she said that he was weird, and that he added random girls on facebook. But she said he was nice. I just talked to this other girl and her bf (who goes to that school) and asked them about him and they started laughing and the girl said he was really weird. When I said I was gonna hang out with him she just kept cracking up. So I'm not too sure about hanging out with now, but I don't know how to say that to him without being mean. What should I do???

Answer 1

say "i dont think its a good idea if we hang out. i just dont know you that well and you dont know me that well either. and i dont really want to get to know you any further"?

it sounds really mean, but i think that may be the only way he will get the hint

Answer 2

u shouldnt care what ur frinds think...just hang out with the guy for a while then if u like him...keep in touch...if not...stick to txting or whatever

Answer 3

run .... then m********e in a corner

Answer 4

I WOULD C ABOUT ASKING THE FUNNY GUYS WHAT DO THEY MEAN WEIRD,WEIRD HOW,THEN MAKE UP YOUR MIND.

Answer 5

hang out with him,

"if you give people a chance, you will always be surprised"

- Dr. Pausch

your friends might think he is weird, but he is probably a nice guy. He sounds lonely  

Answer 6

well, if you don't want to hang out, you need to make that very clear. Hire slow. Fire fast.

Answer 7

I think if he made an effort to get to know you, he doesn't seem so bad. Maybe your friends don't like him but they don't really know him.  I would give him a chance, but I wouldn't go hang out with him alone. Take a friend with you (tell him to bring a friend too) and see what he's like. He could be a nice guy. If not, you and your friend can take off.  

Answer 8

nah, you dont even know him.