Should I have done this to a Capricorn?

Question

I am a Cancer and he is a Capricorn. We started talking a few months back but then things kind of went to h**l and although I apologized he didn't seem to want it and ignored me.I found out he was intimidated by me. Now, over two months later I hear from a friend that he has been talking behind my back about me. Being the person that I am I want to get to the bottom of things. So I call him on it and totally ****** him out. I made sure the other person was telling the truth and I know for a fact that this Cap was lying to me and asked me not to be mad and promising that he hadnt said anything to anyone. But of course that is not the case. He even wanted to reconcile and start fresh. But I said no. Why do Caps act like this?

Answer 1

WOW! some people {Croi_Croga} can be so touchy!

Anyways, to answer your question:

at first when you apologized he needed space and time to think things over and cool off. he needed a buffer time so he could evaluate the situation and get over the fight. at that time he ignored you because he wasn't sure how to feel about you. then he decided the friendship wasn't worth the trouble and started talking sh*t about you.

somewhere between then and the time you called him out on it, he decided the good outweighed the bad and that he should give you a 2nd chance because he missed your friendship and realized how much of the fight was his fault.

then when you called him out on it, he wasn't ready to admit that he was guilty of sh*t talking, because he somehow didn't think you would have heard about it anyways so he wasn't expecting a confrontation about it. so he lied to smooth you over and would have admitted to it later on once you got close again, but he would have needed time to put things gently to you.

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with that said, sun sign is THE MOST IMPORTANT sign in your chart. it is your inner self and your life drive. it is what you live for and your meaning of existence. I have been studying astrology for over 10 years and have seen it everywhere in many references, and I DONT trust internet websites because they are not credible enough for me. I only read PUBLISHED works of astrology.

the sun sign is most important. you are cancer and he is capricorn. you are star crossed signs. you are opposite ends of the same spectrum. you are exact opposites and so it is difficult for you to understand each other and what makes each other tick. you would react to things in a very different way from him.

it is advisable for people who are star crossed to stay away from each other, because they are so different that it is difficult for them to understand each other and get along. usually the friendships and love relationships end badly and with enemy status. they are actually fatal attractions and each sign has a star crossed. so that is why you don't understand why he is doing things and how he is doing them and why you don't agree with what he is doing. it is advisable for you to keep away from this man and also other capricorns.

I can speak from personal experience on this subject as well. I am a capricorn female and I have had about 4 very close cacner friends when I was growing up. Each friendship ended with us just agreeing to not be friends anymore so that we wouldn't hurt each other by fighting or by making each other miserable as we no longer enjoyed each others company, and it was turning to hate as we could not stand each other anymore.

Answer 2

I dont know. . .

Answer 3

Well, Caps have clear 20/20 Hindsight. At first he's gonna wanna be the big man and ignore you. And after you chewed him out, he realized the error of his ways. Now he wants to be friends again. I suggest giving him a chance.

Same kinda thing happened to me recently. (I'm a capricorn)

I ended up bitching out a Triple Aries (not a wise decision) and ended a relationship with the only person whoever meant anything to me. Not a day goes by without me wishing I could change the idiotic thing I've done.