Should I have s*x this December?

Question

Me and my g/f have been dating for 5 mounths and we are both 16.She asked me if I would like to have s*x in December she said she would love that and see said I will be ready by thin.Shes still a virgin and im not.I told her when shes ready tell me.Do you think im doing the right thimg.

Answer 1

No. I think that if you have to ask if you should have s*x then you should not. There is a lot that goes along with it. You guys should wait longer and not set a date. If you are going to choose to then make sure you are taking the right precautions so you are not posting on here two weeks later "I think she is pregnant what should we do"

Answer 2

i agree wit the person who sed dont hav s*x wit anyone til ur married :D

Answer 3

hmmmm..... Diapers are around $22.00 per box, which they go thru ALOT. Dot forget that crib, which is 100.00 or more!!...clothes you will prolly spend around 350.00 on, just in the first year, maybe even more. Dont forget formula which is about 20.00 a can. Bottles, blankets, pacifiers, car seat, bath tub....do you actually want me to go on? If you have to plan it, then I am going to say definetaly NO. When she is ready it will happen. Just dont be stupid and get in "the moment" and say s***w the condom cuz you dont have one around. Wouldnt you rather spend the 10.00 on the condoms as opposed to a c**p-load of money, just in the first year alone? Dont get me wrong, babys are a wonderful blessing and the greatest joy, but can be a handful when not planned.  Good Luck.....

Answer 4

just don't be a fool wrap your tool

Answer 5

Just do it!

Answer 6

ignore the bible huggers. We're animals. we mate. Don't plan when you're going to have s*x!! It will just happen when you're both ready. You can't just say oh it's Dec 16. I put that on my agenda for the day were gonna do it. When you're both ready to share that very intimate part of a relationship...you'll know.

be safe

Answer 7

if you seriously have to ask this question then no!

Answer 8

Don't plan your s*x. That's not romantic.

You need to get older. You know you are not old enough when you are asking this question on YA.

Answer 9

its the most wonderful timeeee of the year :)

no im kidding. i dont think she will be ready for december if she has to put a date on it., its something thats suppose to happen on its own

Answer 10

That's a weird question on her part. haha. Um, just use protection if youre gonna do it and make sure she goes on birth control.

Answer 11

no but chances are you won't listen to what we say. you guys are still kids. i don't think kids are ready to bear the consequences if pregnancy results.

Answer 12

waiting until she is ready is the right thing as long as you are not preasuring her. when you do please be safe because i was 15 when i got pregnant with my first

Answer 13

16 is very young to be having s*x, and if you are asking the question then I would say that ya'll are not ready.  December is a long time away, how does she know that she will be ready by then?  I would take it slow and see if she is ready then and not pressure her if she is still not ready.  Either way personally I do not think you should be having s*x with anyone until you are sure that you are in love with them and are getting married.  That is an old fashioned opinion but those are the few good couples that still exist.

Answer 14

read a bible, both of u! go to church!get ur minds off of s*x and on to some sport or sumthing thats not centered around u!!

Answer 15

If you have to ask, then I say no.

Answer 16

Wait til your married!  You'll be glad you did.

Answer 17

I don't see anything wrong with having s*x, but you really need to make sure she's ready. I know that it is her choice, but 5 months isn't really that long and she will never get her virginity back. you seem like a great kid to be asking. just remember to wear a condom with spermicide  

Answer 18

Wow thats a tough one... honestly just wait till you are ready, you will know without having to plan it months ahead.  Make sure and be safe whatever you do.  Its a crazy world out there now a days.  Good luck!

Answer 19

If she is ready, then I think it's fine. Just use a condom!

Answer 20

If you aren't sure, you shouldn't be doing it.

Answer 21

Don't have s*x with anyone till your married to that person. ..