Should I invite my cousin (my fiance's ex) to my wedding?

Question

My cousin broke up with my now fiance 6yrs ago... She just found out that my bf (her ex) proposed to me and that we're getting married...

My cousin is also the one who introduced us to each other (almost forcefully), not knowing that her intentions is to get back with him (she cheated on him and got preggy by someone else that's why they broke up)... I didn't know those were her intentions... Me and her ex, hit it off right away and we're so happily inlove with each other & he proposed 10 months after we've been dating...

Me and my cousin aren't as close as we used to be anymore, specially after finding out me & my guy are about to get married... They've been together for 2yrs... I know she's upset and STILL jealous even after 6yrs...

Should I invite her to my wedding? Will it be awkward if I do? I'm scared she'll ruin our special day...

Opinions anyone?

Answer 1

invite her, or there'll be family tensions you don't need to worry about on your big day

tell her that she is your cousin, you love her, and want her to be a big part of your wedding, but that you don't want any trouble, or anyone to cause a scene, and you'll understand if she doesn't want to come

she should be fine with it, good luck

Answer 2

OOOOO nooooo, I don't think I would invite her unless things get better between you two before the wedding! Which they probably won't considering how she is acting about it right now!

Answer 3

I would invite her. Since she's famil, if you don't invite her, you're going to cause a whole lot more family drama about not inviting her. Be the "good guy" and go ahead and invite her. She might not come, considering the circumstances, so don't be suprised. Otherwise, just try to be nice to her and don't let her ruin your day. Good luck!

Answer 4

If it were my wedding I would not invite her. She would be the person to stand up when the preacher says if theres any reason these two people should not be married than speak now or forever hold your piece. I would not invite someone who might have intentions on s******g my wedding up or trying to take my guy back.

Answer 5

What would be more awkward - inviting her to your wedding, or excluding her from coming? I don't know what your family situation is and what your relationship with your cousin is like. If you're inviting everyone in the family, it would be very conspicuous if you excluded her. If only people close to you are coming, then it makes sense to keep it this way, and keep her out, along with everyone else you are not very close to.

Answer 6

well only invite her if you get along with her...

and i have a similar problem my fiance  is my sister's ex partner and the mother to 2 of his kids...

but i think my sister will just turn down the invite ...  well i kinda hope.. i know the kids will be coming....