Should I keep an eye on her? A possible man stealer?

Question

I met her about a year ago (we're both 25) through a mutual friend. We've been on a road trip and frequent single bars and other events together maybe once a month. She has a LIVE-IN boyfriend, whom she is always complaining about and she DATES/has other men on the side that she does 'things' with and lets them give her money. Well---she's always down to party and complains about being stifled in her relationship (yet her and her boyfriend just renewed another lease together) So last night, she came along with me to hang out with this new guy I really like and his friends. As soon as she saw him, she told me---she thought he was g*y. And I've prided myself on having GAYDAR but I don't get that vibe from my new guy friend. Well---she immediately starts telling me, how she thinks he is g*y---and blah, blah, blah but not for any particular reason. He is extremely handsome by the way. Well, that same night---as me and him walked, talked and chilled---she was all underneath us. Like, she wouldn't give us any space. Like walking right near us, so we didin't have privacy to talk. Once inside this club (he was buying us BOTH drinks) she was walking directly behind him and standing on his BACK---like she was his date. I kinda got mad at her, because she was acting sneaky. Do you think she was possibly 'hatin' like trying to deter my interest from him, so she could SNAG him?

Answer 1

very likely, of course it could be you that she fancies.

Answer 2

I agree with hello, wait and see how he reacts!  Or just confront her and ask her what her motive is!

Answer 3

You better give it up to him before she does - and given the chance she will tonight.

Answer 4

YES..cnt u see that she's just wating 4 d right time

Answer 5

Well first thing is that he's not your to snag?? BUT the most important thing here is that you don't like or trust this girl. So why are you hanging with her??? If she cheats on her boyfriend and is living a life that you seem to disagree with, then why are you with her??? I hung out with a girl also that I wasn't too fond of. Eventually I had to ask myself the same question. Why was I hanging with her then? Well I finally broke lose of the friendship. And believe me, I'm much happier for it. SO get rid of her as a friend. And keep a close watch on WHO your choosing to hang around with. Even if you did snag this guy, your hanging with someone you think would s***w him behind your back if she could. What kind of a so called friend is that?? You don't want people like that in your life do you? You need to go find people you can TRUST. Then your life will be much better for it. Thats what I did. And believe me, I do feel better for it!!!!!  DUMP HER!!!!!!!!! Shes a loser

Answer 6

yes!

aargh!

wat a loser

stay away from her

she's bad news and is just using ur friendship

next time go out without her

this guy sounds like a good catch, don't let her ruin it!

best of luck :)

Answer 7

yes u're right its very obvious. BUT DUN DO ANYTHING. let her do her s******g around. this will test the guy. he probably knows she's a btich he's not stupid. if he falls for her then he wasnt worth u anyway. but u should give hints to the guy u like him so he knows

Answer 8

YES, I would say so!! Ditch her next time your going out with a man. You don't need a "friend" like that!!

Answer 9

all i can tell you keep your guard up (but not to much to the point that she notices) and dont be surprised for what she tries. your most vulnerable when surprised. keep an eye on her i personally think but make sure she doesnt no that you are