Should I keep on living with my husband? We moved in together in November, he has two kids and it has been ?

Question

it has been h**l since then dealing with his ex who is a careless mom who did not teach anything to her kids, then all my pregnacy with lots of conflicts, crying, taking care of all three kids, and working, then having my baby and taking care of my baby after a c-section by my self without his help. Not even one night has he taken care of my baby, he does not do anything but working going to the gym and do his things. Now he pushes me every day to find a job when it has been only two months since I had the baby, I feel exhausted, my body hurts, my breast hurts if I don't feed the baby... He has a good job that pays more than enough money for us to live. I have worked my entire life so, if I have to go back I will but not having support from him... I think I will get a job and leave

Answer 1

another example of why not to marry a man that has been married before and they have children together.

Answer 2

bank his money in the process while look for a job, for you and the baby until you get on your feet, don't want to wait until after this has happen do it now before he finds out anything and he is not paying attention to what your doing on the down low, don't change your attitude continue to be you, just keep in mind that he will get the short end of the stick, then you file for child support, and alimony if you get it too. now lets see who get the last laugh!!! it wont be him lol

Answer 3

I would ask him why hes on your butt about going to work and if hes one of those men who likes to live the high life that could be why he wants you to go to work and also you need to tell him that you want time with your new baby as well to recoup from having a baby he sounds selfish