Should I kill myself now or later?

Question

I had a miserable life and was trying to get my life back in order when I recieved an injury to my groin area, I can no longer get an erection and I fear I may not again(at least not like before when I had a high s*x drive and high testosterone)

Should I kill myself now when I have some type of hope that it will get better, or should I wait to kill myself when the doctors tell me I will probably need treatment and surgery to get an erection again

I had a miserable life and was really looking forward to getting back on track, I am not one to live off supplements and pills and surgery to get a erection

I am just debating wether I should kill myself now that I have some hope or wait until the depression is unbearable

Answer 1

Don't kill your self just yet. You think you got it bad. I am married to a nasty fat woman who tortures me 24/7 with her bad smell and continual griping. My brother told me he could loan me $55 and I would give it you if we could exchange life's.  

Answer 2

Just Don't. Your life is worth the world even though you might not feel that right now.

Answer 3

I wouldn't really reccomend killing yourself at all. I know you've tried to get your life back on track before, but you should still keep trying cause your life is still worth living. Just try to keep a positive mindset. Your life will turn aroud if you allow it to.

Answer 4

If you killed yourself it won't have too much of an effect. Everyone moves on eventually. That is how much a life is worth. Not much.

Answer 5

Dont do it.Just because you hate your life doesnt mean you should make others suffer because you would be hurting others.WAIT TILL SURGERY.

Answer 6

geeeez, Mister. not being able to get an erection does not mean it's the end of the world for you! (unless you actually made s*x the center of your life before you got injury to your groin area).

there are things far more important that your s*x life, really. true, this bad news can be understandably depressing, but really, taking your own life is not the answer. it shouldn't even be an option. you should look into other things in your life that are worth giving attention to.

and think about the people who cares about you - your family and friends. they're there for you. they'll somehow get you through life, and they need you too, for all you know.

focus on other things, like family, career, charity, sports, a new hobby, et cetera. try to have a more positive attitude towards life and you'll start to see how you're blessed in other aspects of your life.

Answer 7

man thats pretty bad.  You really want to kill yourself huh?  Not a good idea.  U don't need an erection to be happy.  Live off other stuff.  Plus wait for the surgery for sure.  Even if you can't get a big erection you can still love people and feel happy.  Don't give up hope so easily.

Also remember everyone else you will effect. Mom and dad.  They would want to die before there son.  Your friends life might never get better.  You family will miss you and im sure that if they saw what you are going through they would understand.

Answer 8

d**n man i feel for you i really do and i somewhat understand how you feel nobody understands me now or even act like they care about my feelings so sometimes i feel like no one would care if i were to die or not to be honest i really cannot give you a reason not to kill your self sometimes i feel like i should not even be alive like things would be better if i weren't born I'm not going to give you the religion lecture because i feel the same way about it that you do after praying your *** off and going through so much things don't change but those who go to chruch it just seem like they want to brainwash you and make you forget about everything that you felt like was important and become another blind follower but i say this much man sometimes i imagine being dead and i admit it feels good sometimes but thats not go bring you any happiness man you just want the pain to end since you feel like your situation is hopeless do you know for a fact that your life isn't gonna turn around i see if we could see into the future and know it for a fact but the fact is we cant sometimes right before we give up that one d**n blessing come along that we been waiting for if you kill yourself the day before that happens than your really screwed **** is hard i know

family dont understand you and you dont have any real friends you feel like life not worth waiting out the **** storm but one day things might change if you give up now it mean all the suffering and bullshit that you been through would have been for nothing you made it this far right wait it out before you decide to off yourself something may come along to change your whole view on your life

  

Answer 9

Don't kill yourself

Answer 10

Do not take your life. Your life is not yours to take. It is a gift from God. Get some help. have a doctor refer you to a specialist. I'm one who considered taking my life two years ago. While I hadn't made plans I thought about it. I can't tell you the result of your physical condition but I can tell you that things will get better. I am so glad that I did not take my life.  

Answer 11

don't.. suicide is a permanent solution to temporary problem