Should I leave him alone?

Question

I met this dude a few days ago and he asked me out the day after we met. He`s very into my appearance and his friends are too, and he asked to kiss me about five minutes after we met (I said no). So far (it`s only been 5 days), he`s only come over after seven and then stays for as long as he can, and we don`t spend more than half an hour on the phone together. I asked him to come over at an earlier time in the future, and he said that he`d try but he`s busy in the day time and he might not be able to come over when the sun is up everyday.

He lives in a rough area, isn't quite interested in legal activities and has a few friends that I don`t really like. Two of my cousins who have had brief run-ins with him before say he`s trifling, but I`m not sure that I can trust their judgment. Other than that, he`s cute, nice, more than willing to buy me stuff and pretty respectful. But I`m not sure if I can trust him, because he seem kinda iffy to me. I`m not a fan of being heart-broken and getting played because I don`t like to unleash my emotions, but it MIGHT be worth it. What should I do?

Answer 1

Always listen to your intuition, that's the voice inside telling you what you need to know - the one that said to you "he seem kinda iffy to me" that's the one you listen to, it never lies.  Run girl, run, move on, set your standards a bit higher and when in doubt, don't have s*x.  Nobody ever died from waiting for it!!!

He has friends yu don't like, not good. He not into legal activities, really not good. Word is he's bad news on a lot of levels.  What more do you need to know.  Heartbreak is the least of your potential problems.  Run away and leave him de h**l alone!

Answer 2

Angels love bad men, the clever ones dont!

I think you should get out now if you can,  

Answer 3

It seems to me you already know the answer deep down...

If it were me...I would back off...

Answer 4

Listen to your cousins, it is better to be safe then sorry!  

Answer 5

I say give him a chance. He might have a good reason he can't come over earlier, he likes you and understood when you said no to a kiss, shows affection by buying you gifts, etc. Maybe he needs someone to show him your type of life. Go for it, but keep an eye open.

Answer 6

wow hard question. I am a guy myself and if I am to busy to see a GIRL (get it...a teenagers mind is stuck on this) then I am either playing games,grounded or doing something wrong.

I would suggest finding out whats he is doing (though a normal conversation and trick him into telling you; note: it's not that hard) and then figuring out what you wanna do.

Answer 7

Well the first clue- he only been coming over after 7- why? And if he is very superficial than you know what's next, he'll be asking you for s*x. If you haven't already given it up. I wouldn't trust him either. Get rid of him girl and move on. Just because he is cute doesn't mean nothing those are the ones who will break your heart.