Should I leave my current job because I don't fit in?

Question

I started at my new job a month ago, but I am still getting to know people because I'm very quiet. I get the impression that my collegues don't really want me around and it's upsetting me.

Today for lunch one of the girls asked me if I wanted to come out with them for lunch and I agreed. Then when we went to Superdrug I was looking at the magazines, the store isn't that big so I let them get on with what they were looking at as I didn't see the point trailing behind them. I then went to pay for the magazine.

After I had paid I walked away from the till and looked around the store everywhere for them I then looked outside and they had left. They didn't even check to see if I was with them they just left without me.

I really feel like I don't fit in. I want to leave because this has made me quite upset. I might as well be invisible. Do you think it would be advisable for me to look for another job? or am I just over-reacting?

Thanks.

Answer 1

Hey dont get upset for such samll things in life....they really dont know you tht well and are not close to you....m sure once thy kno how kool you are...they all will be around you...they will take your advice for each & every small thing & you will be a very imp part of their life just dont loose heart....this small things happen in life...just over come this...and remember crows are always black...where ever you go ppl will be same unless thy know u well...thy wont get along...so relax give them time..and dont waste time thinking about all this as this will only hurt u n no one else...and life is too small so just enjoy

Answer 2

Maybe you should look for another job if the people that work with you treat you like that and with no respect.