My live in boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years. I met him as I was trying to get over my ex at that point. All of the things I normally find satisfying in a man he did NOT have, except for money but I was desperate to get over my ex so I went for it. Well for the past 3 years he is getting a divorce from his wife soon which has yet to happen and up until about 8 months ago he was cheating left and right. Now he has lost his good paying job and working barely paying child support and his car note which means that he is hardly contributing to the bills at our house. He has also now stopped cheating but I feel if the money was still here he would still be cheating. On top of all of this, I still love my ex and he wants to marry me and I want to be with him. My ex and I had a few issues when we were dating but nothing compared to what I go through with this guy. My ex has bought a house for me and my kids and wants to move forward where we left off but everytime I try to breakup with my live in boyfriend he keeps crying and begging me not to. I am not even in love with my live in boyfriend anymore, I just deal with him because I know he needs me at the moment. When he was doing good financially, he has been caught out of town and over other womens house more than once now I think that he has just settled on being with me because of his money situation.
What do I do? Serious replies only.
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