I AM A PARENT OF A RETAINED FOURTH GRADER WHO IS NOW ON HER WAY TO EIGHT GRADE AFTER SHE COMPLETES CLASS ON MAY 31ST 2008. AFTER REPEATING 4TH GRADE SHE SEEMED TO FALL MORE BEHIND. I DO BELIEVE SHE FELT LIKE A FAILURE. AND SHE BEGAN TO DEVELOP HABITS OF HIDING THINGS.
I INTERACTED WITH THE SCHOOLS AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE BUT JUST AS I WAS INFORMED ABOUT PAST EVENTS TO CORRECT THEM, THE RECENT EVENT WOULD GET MORE BEHIND. THIS HAD BECOME SUCH A PROBLEM. I POSITION MYSELF TO HOME SCHOOLING. I REALLY FEEL LIKE THAT MY CHILD FELT LIKE SHE WAS DUMB AND THIS WAS WHAT SHE HAD TO EXCEPT. THIS LEAD TO HER HAVING BEHAVIOR PROBLEMS AND BEING UNFOCUSED. AND NOW EACH AND EVERYDAY I HAVE TO WORK HARD ENCOURAGING AND PROVING THE HER THAT SHE IS GREAT AND CAN ACCOMPLISH EACH AND EVERY GOAL. SHOWING HER THAT SHE CAN MAKE GOOD GRADE. SO WITH THAT BEING SAID, I AM TRYING TO GET HER BETTER PREPARED FOR PUBLIC HIGH SCHOOLS AND COLLEGE BECAUSE SHE WANT TO BE ACTIVE IN SPORTS. BUT BEFORE WE DO THIS, SHE IS APPROACHING SUMMER, THOUGH SHE'S MORE CONFIDENT, SHE DOESN'T FEEL THAT SHE CAN COMPLETE TWO GRADE IN ONE YEAR TIME TO CATCH UP TO HER REGULAR GRADE. THOUGH I FEEL SHE CAN. I DON'T WANT TO PRESSURE HER. BUT I WAS THINKING THAT HER COMMENTS IS A BIT COMING FROM THE FEAR OF NOT WANTING TO FELL AGAIN OR MAYBE JUST OVERWHELMED BY TOO MUCH SCHOOL AND JUST WANTS A BREAK. BUT NOW IS THE PERFECT TIME. I DON'T WANT HER HIGH SCHOOL YEARS INTERRUPTED WHILE PERFECTING ACADEMICALLY AND PARTICIPATING SPORTS. SOMETIME I WANT TO PUSH HER, SO I CAN GET HER PREPARE BECAUSE THAT'S WHAT I FEEL SHE FELLED FROM AND THE REASON SHE WAS ELECTED TO BE HELD BACK A GRADE BECAUSE THEY THOUGHT SHE WASN'T READY FOR THE PUSH THAT PUBLIC SCHOOL NOW GIVE WITH THE NEW NCLB ACT. BUT KNOWS SHE FEEL MORE SAFE WITH ME BECAUSE SHE KNOWS THAT I WILL BE RIGHT THERE SHOWING HER EVERY STEP OF HOW TO DO THE WORK. BUT SHE GETTING OLDER AND NEEDS BLIND STRATEGIES. MEANING SHE NEED TO HAVE AND UNPREDICTABLE COURSE TO PROVE THAT SHE CAN DO IT AGAIN. WITH GREAT STUDY HABITS SHE CAN SUCCEED IN A LOT. WHAT DO YOU THINK?
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