I have been with the same guy for 2 years and 3 months on and off. We have a beautiful 4 1/2 month old daughter named Layla. I want things to work between her father and I and he does as well. The thing is, is my family hates him. He hasnt had a steady job for a long time until recently. He is currently with out a home because he was renting a house from his brother and it went to forclosure. My guy didnt know until the bank came to change the locks (his bro was too embarrassed to tell him)...He litrally had 12 hours to vacate the property. He now has a good steady job that he enjoys and earns a good income. Sometimes we dont get along the best (who does) but I feel like I should give it another shot. We have been split up now since the first week in June. I have talked to him several times and we argee that we should try really hard to make this work. I live with my mom because of the baby and I also have a really bad spinal injury that prevents me from working at this time and into the forseeable future. He told me what he makes per hour and it is enough to support he and I and our baby (or a few more ;)). This last spring he and I were thinking about moving in together and we looked at a few houses. One of the houses we looked at I fell in love with. He has talked to several morgatge brokers about getting a loan for the house. (Its stll undecided). I have very deep feelings for him and I miss him every day. I miss doing things together and him being able to see our daughter. He has not seen her but a few times since she was 2 months old. He and my mother got into a big fight over me, and she told him that he was never allowed on our property again. He has snuck over here a few times to see Layla while my mom was at work, but I dont like to decieve my mom either. I want to give it a shot and see what happenes, but my family, especially my mom would be very dissappointed in me if I did. I am so torn. Any advice out there?
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