Should I let my x/best-friend be in my wedding?

Question

We have been friends for 16yrs and we have lived together for the past 2 yrs. All of the sudden she wont talk to me or even look at me, I don't know if I should put her in my wedding in December. This my 2nd marraige, she was the maid of honor in my 1st wedding. She also doesnt like my fiance, dont really know why (she has called him names, and I let that go). She is single, and wants to have a husband and family, but its just not her time, I ofter wonder if this is the problem. When I ask, she says stuff like, "I just dont like being around, your parents visit to much." (Totally off for an answer, i think) We will be moving out next month, don't know how to approach this.

Answer 1

invite her. and let her in only if you have no one else to be in it..but  if you have a friend that has been better to you let her be in it...goood luck and have a geat wedding!

Answer 2

no. she'll just s***w up the wedding

Answer 3

NNNNNOOOOOO Big no no.

Answer 4

I say don't invite her cause it is obvious she doesn't have your best interest in her mind. she sounds like she is just jealous and right now.

If she is very dear to you I say give her a call and tell her you were best friends for so many years and you are inviting her to your wedding and if she wants to come you will be happy about it. and if she doesn't want to come well you will be sad but that's her choice.  

Answer 5

shes probably jealous that shes had you to herself all these yrs and now you're getting married and she wont have as much of your time now and probably dislikes your fiance for bringing you two apart (not his fault) if you want to pay for her to be in your wedding (that she doesnt approve to) then go ahead. but i wouldnt invite her.  

Answer 6

i think on your special day you should surround yourself with people who support you and love you. i think in the end you will be a lot more upset dealing with her negativity then you would be just leaving her out of it!  

Answer 7

Just ask her to stop being a *****, be happy for you, and ask if she even wants to be in the wedding. Simple as that.  

Answer 8

i think that u should have her sit down with u and u should really talk to her about it. . .this is an important day... ur day and u should have everyone u luv with u. . . . . . maybe she will tell u the problem and u can settle it