Should I lose my virginity anytime soon?

Question

I'm a hispanic catholic, I have morals and values, and I've always known that i was going to wait for marriage before having s*x. but i see so many movies and so many of my friends doing it. it doesnt seem so wrong if so many people do it or does it? besides, the divorce rate is around 50% and since part of a good marriage is sexual compatibility, im thinking it would be better to do it before marriage to see if it will work out. besides, a long time ago a couple barely touched, and seeing what they do now- making out- which im ok with, makes me think i should be ok with s*x too.

thank you for answering..

Answer 1

if u love him then go for it, but im staying a virgin till i marry someone i have been with a long time ago..(like go out first then love then marriage)

Answer 2

stay a virgin

Answer 3

no you shouldn't.  it is a special thing that you should do when you are ready and it does not sound like you are. so wait a while until you are ready and it will be worth it.

Answer 4

Well I think Modern Morality needs to be updated..personally .I think its better to sleep with someone you love before you get married so that you know you are compatible sexually. s*x in a married relationship is important. I think sleeping with someone you love is beautiful I don't think its wrong at all.

Answer 5

i agree

stay a virgin and stand by what u believe. am the same am waiting till am married,

listen if you already sleep togther the mystery is all spent and therefor s*x becomes boring and people start cheating.

stay a virgin you wont regret it EVER!

Answer 6

So if your friends jumped off a bridge would you consider doing it too?

Let's get real here. Your friends are all "doing it" so in order to fit in you think you ought too as well. And then continuing your screwed up logic, you figure that since up to 50% of marriages result in divorce, you may as well do it for that reason because of possible sexual compatibility issues.

Want to know what I think? You're considering doing it for all the wrong d**n reasons. GROW UP and be responsible instead of spreading for anyone just because everyone else is. If you want to have s*x  before marriage at least do it with someone you fully love and trust, NOT because your skeazy friends are.