Should I love this brother?

Question

I am not very experienced with dates, but this guy, that go to the same university as i do, and I seem interested in each other. So I asked him out today and we had a coffee and then a dinner. We had about five and a half hours together. The conversation started with the weather, then some personal interest stuff, some politics and some fun things like hobies. I was a bit more excited before the date,but after it, I feel like he is more of a friend/brother than anything else. This was the first time I had a one on one conversation with him. So far I have met him 5 times but with presence of other friends. My current feelings are worrying me. Is it normal? What should I be feeling after the date if I want to be a potential girlfriend? Why is this happening while I was expecting increased emotions for him after the date?

Thanks in advance!

Answer 1

MAYBE HE IS JUST A FRIEND GO ON DATES WITHOUT HIS FRIENDS (IF POSSIBLE) TO FIND OUT IF U LIKE HIM MORE THAN A FRIEND BEST OF LUCK

Answer 2

I think that its not that big of a problem.I have two guy friends and so far everything is fine,i thought i like one of them in the "like like" kind of way but in the end i decided that he's just a very good friend of mine.What i'm saying is that if you don't think that you have some sort of deeper feelings towards him then don't force yourself to be with him.Besides,as far as i can see you haven't spend much time with him yet.Maybe you'll stop liking him in a brotherly kind of way when you get to know him better.