Should I make a move on an old friend?

Question

I used to go to school with this girl, then lost contact with her for years. 7 months ago we got back in contact, and got pretty close, to the point that she admited she had a crush on me. She was with someone at the time so I backed off, and we kind of drifted away. This was like 3 months ago.

She broke up with him this week, and I dont know if I should try to make a move on her or not. Please, any advice will be appreciated!

Answer 1

go for it!

Answer 2

I don't think you should "make a move" on her just yet.  Definitely hang out with her more and if she's feeling down about the breakup, comfort her, do the typical stuff in that situation.  Once she seems ok again, go for it.  If she was the one who ended her last relationship though, go for it now.

Answer 3

talk to her for a while and see if u get hints

Answer 4

Go for it buddy! What do you have to lose?

Answer 5

You should try to figure out if she still has a crush on you because maybe she doesn't anymore. Hint at it instead of asking her up front because if she's not interested anymore then it might make the friendship a bit awkward.

Answer 6

Talk to her and comfort her because she might be sad that she and this guy broke up then Make a move on her.

goodluck![=

Answer 7

You already knows she likes you so what's with the jitters? Do it already.

Answer 8

yes definitely

Answer 9

Wait a little bit before you do anything.

Answer 10

yes go ahead and make the first night the best give her all you got and tell her you want her to have your baby and start a family she will really love you and spend lots of time with her to let her know you are serious.

Answer 11

Support her right now. Then in a month or two if she is better. Tell her or ask her if she still has a crush on you.

Answer 12

Not if you want to stay friends with her.

Trust me, if yall do go out, things will not nor ever be the same.

Answer 13

talk then everything will fall into place.

Answer 14

Forget her.  What about the guy she recently broke up with?

Answer 15

if shes an old friend then i dont think u should make a move on her.

its probably better to keep the friendship than to jeopardize it if u guys end up breaking up in the future.

Answer 16

go for it , u only live once

Answer 17

lol thats crazy i just went thru the same thing.

ask urself...will you regret not doing it and wonder what would have happened?

oh and if she went out of her way to tell u they broke up...she wants it

Answer 18

Well if you still have feelings for her than i don't see why not.  Goodluck!!

Answer 19

I think that you should become closer again and then admit your feelings. It'd be a bad idea to just rush up to her and try to hit it off, she'd probably get angry.