Should I make her special dream come true?

Question

my girlfriend, who is a very shy but very sweet loving and faithful girl has a secret dream - and I would like to make it come true. She dreams of an evening with me and a second man, something we have never done before. I am really Ok with this - but would be grateful if you could give us any tips how this evening can be a special occasion and enjoyable. Its a one off - we both agree - please don't write critism or jokes about it - just tips! thanks!

Answer 1

a second man wtf !

Answer 2

Yes you should. It would be just like the Bachelorette

Answer 3

ofcoures! if that is you really love her....or if you dont better to leave her now than hurt her feelings when she is totally inlove with you....

Answer 4

well i guess first ask her if this anyone she knows she would like to do it with. make sure she knows it ok and u wont hold it against her, make sure the guy understands ur top dog. ask her how she wants to do it and plan it with her. I suggest a few 'dates' with they guy first, idk take u and him to dinner once so she can be a little less shy about it.  

Answer 5

Erm.....if it's a 1 time thing.

If she consistently asks for this... then you've got a problem.

Answer 6

I want you first of all not to consider this as criticism. Unfortunately, unfaithfulness may start with minor stuff like this and then elaborates and develops into something much more deep and unwanted. I'm sure you understand what I'm talking about. So, I highly discourage you from going for that evening.

The choice remains yours

Good luck

Answer 7

If you trust her enough than make this dream true.

Answer 8

You are both adults so what you do is entirly your choices.

The only thing to remember is these things seldom bring happiness long term, as we are jealous by nature.So this,if you choose to go ahead,could destroy your relationship.

Have a good think and talk it through.

Alot of times we say things to please our partner.

Sometimes we say things to get confirmation of how much we are loved.

If she sleeps with another man how will you feel?Witnessing the act too?

And how will she feel knowing you allowed another man to sleep with her?

It's up to you at the end of the day,i just believe fantasies should stay fantasies.

Good luck though!

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