I am a 17 year old mom since 6.11.08. I split with the dad in mid December of 2007, and I have not spoken to him since 2 months before my son was born. The father had called me 2 days ago because he was in jail and that was his excuse why he had not called. Anyways i found out i was pregnant a month after i was with him, and its been 10 months now and he has not done nothing but give me 60 dollars i had to beg him to give me for my sons savings. When i called him to tell him i was in labor which turned out to be false, he told his gf at the time to tell me he was busy and he will call me back later. I have given him chance after chance and he doesn't get it. I just want my son to know his father. I also want to trust that god will take care of us the way he intends but my family doesn't agree. they think i should make him pay because he has 2 other babies he is not paying for or seeing by choice. i really want to trust in god and not make him pay but am i using this out of context....i do not want to make him pay because its a hassle and i am doing fine without him and i think that god will deal with him the way he intends. He has made a lot of mistakes with being a dad, and i don't know if god wants me to give him second chances like he does. I really don't know what to do. Sorry if this sounds awkward or makes no sense its confusing. I just don't want to make an effort to give him second chances if this is not what i should do, or what god wants me to do. also the father wants me to drive up to see him this Saturday. he would come see me but he has no car. I don't know if i even want to be involved with him because i have been doing fine and i don't want the father to get in the way of things but i also want my son to be around his dad and his dad to see his son. sorry again if this is making no sense. thank you any input would be awesome god bless
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