My boyfriend and I have been together for about 5 months. Even though this is not a long relationship, we've fallen very much in love with each other. I feel as he could be "the one". We haven't said this to eachother, but I think he feels the same way. I spend almost every night at his apartment, since he has no roommates (I have two), and it's more calm. We don't have to worry about privacy, etc. This situation has worked out fine when he was 10 minutes away from my house, as I'd just stop at home before work to drop off my dog, and change. (I work 5 minutes from my place.) However, last week he moved to a place closer to his job, that takes me about 20 minutes with no traffic back & fourth. With traffic, it's a 30-35 minute commute to my job without stopping at home. My question is, do I work out a visiting schedule with him (he's not opposed to coming over my house, I just prefer his), or should I just move in with him (he's offered) to make it easier relationship & sanity wise. His apartment is big, new, pet friendly and in a great location. I sort of like my place in that it's so close to my job, and I can visit my dog on lunch. If I moved in, I might not be able to do my lunch time doggie visit, and be further away from my job. I also have fears that if this relationship doesn't work out I would not have enough money to move somewhere else and would have lost a good living situation. Just a note: I wouldn't move in with him for another few months...maybe not until our year mark if I did decide anything.
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