Should I move inwith my boyfriend after 3 mos of dating?

Question

he is leaving for the navy in may and we figure this would be better for him b/c he has to find a new place his cousin has to go away and he cant afford the rent on his own...i have a son from my ex-h that lives with me too...i told him i dont wannt live with a man unless im married to him....but he is here all the time anyway at least 4x a week.....what should i do

Answer 1

I'm a military spouse, my husband is in the Army. Most military men do take relationships fast. But, all the military men I know that ask girlfriends to move in means they want to marry soon. My husband and I met in High School, dated and broke up, got back together when he was away, broke up while he was on his first deployment, and now were married.ha ha military men can be crazy and hectic. But in the long run it usually does work out. They love to come home and see there loved one there.But, I understand there's a child involved. If you care for this man and see a future. And, he loves your child as his own... Then go for it.