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Should I move on from this friend?

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My best friend and I often dont agree - we used to - anyhow this is the new one disagreement - its her and her guys 6th month anniversary and she barley even cares about this guy, in fact shes hung up on her ex and thats been going on for a year - I hear about her ex everyday for a year, she almost never talks about her guy, and she likes another guy she works with - so I think it is wrong of her to ask for a gift for the 6th anniversary, I saw if she wants to buy one for him she should but she shouldnt make sure hes buying her something as well - that to me is childish - shes 24 - not 12 - so what Im asking is do you think its right of her to ask for a gift while she would rather be with her ex, or maybe even a guy she works with - but isnt very in to her boyfriend - and when I saw asked for a gift I mean she said they should exchange but thats still asking - also she once told him he was cheap because he tried to save money - then she said he spent more on games then her and they had not been tog here long at that point - and he bought her gift and all was fixed - I think shes doing him wrong - what do you think - should I say out of it or tell her what I think is right ?

p.s. I have been the person that was used before, thats why it upsets me at her, shes in my eyes being a bad person -

and in case you wanted to know my age Im 25

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  1. Tell her what you told us.

    Why is she with this guy if she clearly still likes her ex, and is interested in other guys?

    Maybe she just wants stability, but its not fair to her boyfriend.

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  2. I say if you even want to stay her friend then stay out of it. Which also means to tell her that you no longer want to hear about BF1 since she is with BF2. She is acting like a spoiled immature child. Of course she is doing him wrong, but do you want to be the person that points that out to her? Thats entirely up to you.  

  3. I don't think it matters what she does. You might tell her that you aren't interested in hearing about all this stuff. And if she keeps going on about it, distance yourself since she is a boring person and you stopped respecting her.

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