Should I move on or continue going back and forth with this situation? I am tired, and lonely and need help!?

Question

I have been on and off with someone for 4yrs. We actually got married and I divorced him after one year. We have a daughter togther . I have always felt like he leads two seperate lives. His older daugter came into his life last year. He has not seen her sense she was little. I felt like he did not include me when meeting her but took her over to his family house promising I would meet her soon. Recently his mother got sick and he shut me out again. We live seperatly and keep going back and forth. I am really confused I love him. I just dont see the future.

Answer 1

it looks like you just answer your own question. if you don't see a future then let it go. the faster the better

Answer 2

leave.  you will hurt for now but you will be so much better in the long run.  

Answer 3

You should move on.  You divorced him for a valid reason.  There was some reason to distrust him.  Don't make the same mistake over and over, again.  Your future will be clearer when you completely let him go.  Move on and move forward, so then, you can see you did not make a mistake.  For some reason, you are second guessing your decision.  You may be confused, and having judgment clouded, because you are tired and lonely.  Keep up your chin, love yourself first.

Answer 4

Seems like you keep getting hurt. I would just talk to him and tell him your feelings on the situation and go from there.