Should I or shouldn't I???

Question

I have been with my BF for 2 months, he is the love of my life and we've been waiting to be together for 9 years! If i was single he wasn't and vice versa.

I only just got the courage together to tell him how i feel and now that we've done it i want to be with him forever and ever! Should i ask him to marry me, or not? I have 2 children and he is 3 yrs younger than me.

Answer 1

I think you need to give the relationship more time before jumping into marriage.  To want to be with someone for 9 years means that you have a LOT of anticipation... and having a lot of anticipation means you have a lot of room for disappointment.  Give it a year and if you still feel the same, I say ask him.

Answer 2

I don't' think you should ask him to marry you, usually its up to the guy to ask the girl.

I would say, wait it out and see were the relationship stands, 2 months is too little time to tell.  Its important to see where he stands in all of this, try to get a feed from him if you can, about his feelings and stuff.

Best of luck.  

Answer 3

only you know the answer to this do whats in your heart dont listen to anyone else when i started seeing my now husband people said it wouldnt last that woz 6 yrs ago  

Answer 4

you shouldn't. 2 months isn't nearly enough time to get to know eachother properly. You may think he's the love of your life now, but what's the rush? Wait a year or so, if you still feel the same way, then think about it. What's the difference between getting married now or in a few years? You're still together that's the main thing.

You've got kids to think about, don't risk it!

Answer 5

do it

Answer 6

Sweetie, I am in your same situation and we have been together for 3 months. You better bet after being married 9 years I know what I want. When the Divorce is final we are going to be married. We have 4 kids together (2his and 2mine) and possibly 1 on the way. I am not going to let him slip out of my hands. I love him and have never been happier. TELL HIM, ASK HIM! Just don't let it go or you will regret it!

Answer 7

Considering you have 2 children, I think you need to take things slower.  You need to see how the two of you work as a romantic couple before you totally change the lives of your children.

Answer 8

I would say tell him exactly how you feel and see what he has to say, and if it's clear he feels the same way, go for it!

Answer 9

Do it  

Answer 10

It all depends on the couple.  2 months does seem fast, though.

My husband and I got engaged after 3 months but we had dated previously in high school and college.  After losing touch and reuniting 7 years later, it didn't take us long to realize where we were meant to be.  We did plan a long engagement of 18 months to give us time to re-learn each other again.

Just don't rush things, your boyfriend may not be ready to move that quickly.

Good luck!

Answer 11

ok 1st ask ur children if they wud like him to be ur husband/their stepdad coz its jus bin u n dem 4 a while.

2nd if they say yes GO 4 IT !!!!xx