Should I put my unborn up for adoption?

Question

I'm 22 yrs old and currently 8 mo. pregnant. I have a daughter that will soon be one. I was only not pregnant for 4 mo. before I was SHOCKED to find out I was pregnant again. This pregnancy was a total shock. His father can't hold a job, has two current children that he's majorly behind in childsupport...needless to say we are far from speaking terms. My daughter which I wanted to be my only pregnancy due to personal situations and reasoning is with her father right now. I recently lost my job due to the pregnancy and can't get a job being so far along...I've lost my home due to being financially in the whole and could possiably loose my car...I want what's best for my unborn baby and I know unselfishly I can't manage another child. Any advice? I don't want to regret my decision with my unborn baby I just want him to have an amazing life and I'm far from that right now.

Answer 1

No honey, it is not fair to ruin a child's life. Later, he or she will find out that they have been adopted and they might even have some issues and depression. Keep the child and look for another man if you don't think the current one isn't working out for you.