Should I quit volleyball?

Question

All the girls on my team obviously hate me. One of them pushed me to the floor! Another won't talk to me and calls me stupid when I miss the ball. One of the older girls keeps telling me things that are meant to help me improve but she makes me seem like a child. Another girl calls me a showoff. I suck at volleyball anyways and I somehow can't make practices. please help. I have to quit!

Answer 1

I wouldn't quit ask the coach for help!  Or find some that can help you!

Answer 2

kandee u only live life once just quit if u really want to but it is up to u

Answer 3

I know that it can be hard to keep with it.  I never went out for football in school and that is the biggest regret I have in my life.  Looking back at I wish I would have went out for football.  I hope this helps.

Answer 4

practise in volleyball so no could say stupid if you never miss the ball no one will call you stupid so don't quit volleyball.

Answer 5

if you really love the sport but hate the team, consider maybe switching teams...

Answer 6

Do you like the game?  If you're not able to commit to making practices and you don't like the team, I'd have to question why you're even on it in the first place.

Answer 7

uit u shouldnt have to deal wit that bs

Answer 8

I recommend not quitting, show them it doesn't bother you. Do your best and improve your skills and show all those B*tchy girls that you're stronger and better than them. you already are as a person by not doing anything back. I would've punched one of them by now...but I congratulate you on not. The only reason you should quit is if you personally want to. Do what you honestly think feels right.

Answer 9

Girl I think its up to you but If I were you then I stay and work my hardest to show those girls that I am good and to feel good about my self but if you feel like you have to quit then quit

Answer 10

yeah u probably should you're letting the team down

Answer 11

i think u should quit and find another sport your good at and have fun and dont let people push you around or else you will become a push-over

Answer 12

If u love volleyball, u never felt like leaving it... what u have to do is making all u hv gone through as reverse psychology.. show the u can be much better than them. Appreciate, learn and practice what others told u.. and the most important is, never feel u already an expert player because if u feel like that u will never learn anything new again...

Answer 13

Then quit! if you don't truly love the game of volleyball. then you should. you aren't helping your team, by just standing around!

Answer 14

should you quit? you already have the answer to that, but you just wana see if there's others who agress with you. Rite?

The question here is, do you love volleyball? Or are you just doing it cos a need to join smthing in sch?

If you love it, do some research on it. Find someone who knows about it to help coach you a little during your spare time. Do workouts regularly so that you can increase our reflex time, it may be a slow process, but as long as you love it enough, you will get satisfactory results evn though the gals at sch are being a pain. Just ignore them, practice till you are on par or surpass them! show them that you can do it.

BUT if you aen't interested in the first place, then you've wasted quite alot of my alphabets typing the above, lol.

If you don't like it, quit it and look for smthg of interest to you, in that case, you will excel in it, and most importantly,you will be happy doing things that you like even if it meant facing some mean gals.

Gd luck! (^.^)

Answer 15

it is your decision...quit if you really are dreading the season..but if you really love volleyball dont make them make you quit..do what you want to...or maybe you could try out another sport..its your decision

Answer 16

i know just how you feel last year was the same for me if you are new to the team these things happen often but no you shouldn't quit!! ignore them and don't let them get you down...and maybe if things don't change let your coach know...and obviously you don't suck to bad you made the team!!

Answer 17

Girl i think that the idea of quiting is very stupid. Improve those really stpid girls that you like volleyball and want to play. Don't pay attention of the offences and they will stop, time by time. You just need to train just for yourself and no one else. Try this. ANd Don't QUIT!!! DON"T!!! improve to yourself that you are worth!!! and, give your best! or, if they don't stop, just tell the coach!

Answer 18

Yeah I think you're right. You really should quit. Because the whole point of being on the team are your teammates. It doesn't matter that you 'suck' at volleyball, you want to have fun. I know this from personal experience. I just started to play water polo. I suck so much and I feel that the coach doesn't even notice me. But the girls are amazing, fun, crazy, and they help me a lot. K enough of that......think of it as having fun, if you don't enjoy it than quit and try another sport. Good Luck!!!!!!!

Answer 19

I would say to work through the team mates hating you.  They may not really hate you.  They may just be competitive.  Or they may feel better by putting them down. It may just be a communication problem.  Talk with them.  

My concern is that you not making practices.  Do you not make it to the practices because of you thinking the team hates you?  Or are you having some other things that you are involved with?   I would be more inclined to tell you that you should quit if you are not able to make practices than the team not getting along.  You need to decide what is important.  You have made a commitment to your team and you are not living up to that commitment.  Or are you committed to two team, volleyball and _____?

Answer 20

Stay and play Kandee.  Those girls dont hate you as much as you think, I think they are just being mean because your letting them beat you at a stupid game.  Volleyball is a great sport and you just have to stay and show them you can play the game and that your not going to let these chicas run you off.  They will never stop buggin on you if you quit.  Please stick it out with them and just try to improve your game.  Volleyball is a great social outlet when you get older, like in your 20's, 30's.....etc.  Stay, tough it out.  Show yourself that your not a quitter.

Answer 21

Just because your team hates you doesn't mean you should quit playing. Just ignore them and keep playing. The only way you're going to improve is to keep playing. If the situation gets worse, you should try talking to your coach about the problem, or try to get better.