My boyfriend and I are waiting to have s*x until we are married. Tonight, we had a long talk about s*x. I said that I'm excited and he told me that he has no desire to have s*x at all. When we were kissing today, he didn't even get turned on when he imagined how s*x would be when we are married. He said he would be content being a virgin for the rest of his life. I'm really starting to worry about marrying him. I don't want to marry someone that doesn't want to have s*x...I think it brings a couple closer. He said he's kind of excited at the moment...but he will be so hesistant when he's in the moment.
He said this: "like its easy for me to think about in advance, but when i'm in a situation like that, i'm totally turned off to it"
I'm really starting to think about not marrying him. This is totally disappointing because I love him and he's the man of my dreams..what do you guys think about this? I know it may be nerves but...once I'm married, I'm stuck. Is this a warning sign that he's not ready for marriage? I'm his first girlfriend ever.
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