My son's friend has come over several times to our house to play and he is usually hungry so I feed him. This has never really caused me any concern because a lot of times 10 year old boys are really hungry just because they are growing.
A couple of weeks ago, I had him over again on a Saturday. I picked him up in the late morning and the mother was going to pick him up before dinner. She didn't come before dinner and I didn't get any phone calls and she didn't answer her phone, so her son stayed and ate with us and continued to play. I kept trying to get in touch with her. Around 11:00pm I got in touch with her and she was at her house and said she was there all day and lost track of time. She was playing a game called wow on the computer (she was playing on the computer when I picked him up in the morning too).
Then this past weekend I had the little boy over again with his siblings. They all played with my kids and were going to stay for dinner. At dinner time they were all very hungry and said that they didn't have any lunch. I don't know the circumstances behind why they didn't have any lunch, but I know they were at their house at lunchtime.
Anyway, I feel that these children are not being properly cared for; however, I don't want to get the parents in trouble over something which could be just me misperceiving the situation. I know that I often get caught up in projects and work and lose track of time (however I never have forgotten my children's needs).
Should I report my feelings to someone, and if so, who do I report this to? Or, should I just come right out and say, "hey, why are your kids alway's hungry?" I have a feeling if I say anything to the mother, she will probably just keep the kids from coming to my house. School is starting soon, so I am happy to know the kids will be fed at lunch.
Other than her children always being hungry when I see them and the mother forgetting her son the 1 time, I don't have any proof of any neglect. The only thing I have is my maternal instinct and a nagging feeling that the situation is not good. Should I just stay out of this, or report my feelings to someone?
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