My ex wife is dating a man (well call bill) that has a history of violence and even has a domestic violence restraining order on him from his last wife. Needless to say I really don't like this man around my two daughters, but to my knowledge (and I'm 100% sure he hasn't) done anything to my daughters.
However, about 2 months ago my youngest daughter (2 1/2) was playing on my bed while I was getting ready for work. She suddenly pinned her stuffed monkey to the bed by its neck and started babble yelling at it. I went to my ex and asked where she had seen this and she assured me she didn't know, so I filed it away. About 3 weeks ago my oldest daughter (5 1/2) grabbed her cousin by the neck during an argument and told her to shut her mouth. When I asked her about it she became really shy (something she NEVER is). Before I could question her further there was an accident that required stitches and the issue was "forgotten" until this last weekend when I saw it again when she got into an argument with a cousin. I took her inside and told her to tell me where she saw that. She again became really shy and almost afraid. But after a few minutes she told me that she had watched Bill grab his daughter Sarah by the neck and pin her to the wall before pushing her nose into a corner. I did ask my ex who says shes never seen anything like that. The problem is, her best friend talks to me and told me that my ex had told her she saw red marks on Sarah's neck from where Bill grabbed her.
I'm really torn here on what to do. As a teacher I'm required to report even suspected abuse but I'm deathly afraid of retaliation from Bill.
Should I report this?
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