Should I respond to his one-sentence breakup or move on?

Question

So my friend whom i've been casually romantic with sent me this one-sentence email:

"ummmm....we cant talk anymore.....dont ask"

Should I ignore it and move on, or send him this email I wrote:

tim i care about u more than u will ever know. i hope u never forget that.

your e-mail caught me COMPLETELY by surprise....just a couple weeks ago you wrote in big capital letters "I MISS YOU" (twice) and then said that you wanted to "go out to eat and do one of our old numbers as soon as you get out of foster care." i was so happy!

can u understand why im HEART BROKEN and confused? this is TEARING me up inside.

i have NO IDEA what i did or said to p**s u off??? im the same greg ive always been that would do anything for u. obviously someone told you not to talk to me anymore because the tim i know would NEVER be so cold, mean, and callous.

i know u dont want to hurt me, and i can totally understand why u might want me out of the picture because of ur new bf...but sending a cryptic one-sentence e-mail through myspace saying "don't ask" is really low... especially when u dont tell me why.

what am i supposed to do? go insane wondering what the reason is? honestly tim, would you want to be treated that way? i've always treated you with love and respect.

i dont know what else to say. i cant force you to talk to me if u don't want to.

Answer 1

Yeah, send him what you have to say and let him know how you feel. Otherwise, you may regret about not telling him what you want him to hear. After this email, if he doesn't reply back, you can just ignore him.

Answer 2

Move on, hun! You don't need to be wasting your time with someone who has to dump you using the internet! Let him think you were the one that got away haha!

Answer 3

I say send it - you deserve an answer if you put that much effort/emotion in.

Perhaps the guy is really hurt and doesn't know how to tell you, or his family is in the circus and he has to ditch town.

Answer 4

I believe in communication b/c if you don't send the email, you may always wish you had at least communicated what you had to say to this person, then they can decide how to respond. I think it's so sad them some people disconnect suddenly and completely. It's amazing that they can block out feelings that were once there and just turn off the communication/care/concern/connection. So sad, but they are psychologically and emotionally wounded, so that's all they are capable of, for now. your communication could make them grow... now or in the future. good luck.

Answer 5

Don't ask, don't send the email, and move on. You don't dignify his classless break up with a response.  

Answer 6

i would  send him the email.

he should know how you feel.

so go for it. :]