Should I respond to his one-sentence email breakup or move on?

Question

So my friend whom i've been casually romantic with sent me a one-sentence e-mail which said...

"ummmm we can't talk anymore....don't ask."

Then he deleted me from his "private" myspace page.

Should I just ignore him and move on, or send him this e-mail I wrote in response:

tim i care about u more than u will ever know. i hope u never forget that.

obviously someone told you not to talk to me anymore because the tim i know would NEVER be so cold, mean, and callous.

and i know u dont want to hurt me.

please look at this from my point of view. your e-mail caught me COMPLETELY by surprise....just a couple weeks ago you wrote in big capital letters "I MISS YOU" (twice) and then said that you wanted to "go out to eat and do one of our old numbers as soon as you get out of foster care." i was so happy!

so now can u see why im HEART BROKEN and confused? this is tearing me up inside. i have NO IDEA what i did or said to p**s u off??? im the same greg ive always been that would do anything for u.

trust me i totally understand that u might want me out of the picture because of ur new bf...but sending a cryptic one-sentence e-mail through myspace saying "don't ask" is really low especially when u dont tell me why.

what am i supposed to do ...go insane wondering what the reason is? would you want to be treated that way?

i've always treated you with unconditional love and respect.

im heartbroken and crushed, especially after all we've been through, that u removed me from your myspace and cant talk.

i really considered you a friend for life.

i dont know what else to say. i cant force you to talk to me if u don't want to.

Answer 1

Well written, but he is not worth your energy.

The part that will be hard to get over is the closure--he's not letting you have a closure and that is going to be difficult for you.

He's a coward--and you need to look forward. Do remember the good times and good memories. But don't let the anger eat you away.

So have a good cry--then dry up your tears and remind yourself that time will lessen the pain--and move on in life.  In time, you will meet someone else and this will be just a memory.

Answer 2

ok so when you said this

"tim i care about u more than u will ever know. i hope u never forget that."

you broke my heart! lol. For real though no joke. So I would just send that.

Good luck! =]

Answer 3

I would keep it simple and just ask what the heck is going on....don't send him a novella.

Answer 4

don't respond

just move on.

trust me