Should I save my virginity?

Question

Ok I am 25 years old, a guy, and have never had s*x... oral or otherwise. My intention was to wait for my wife, but I don't see that happening anytime soon if ever. I've had only one serious relationship, that for over a year when I was 21. I really do want to wait, any guy reading this can imagine how hard this has been; but now it just seems pointless. I feel so different from everyone; I mean I am normal and cool and people always like me, but it is so hard for me to be truly intimate with anyone because no one I meet shares my values.. EVEN AT CHURCH!!! I really feel like the last of a dying breed. I hate to give it up for nothing; but at the same time, I would hate to save it for nothing. I guess I could just hold out and the could make a movie about me- The 41 year-old virgin... or maybe I should just learn Farsi and move to Iran... I don't know. This is not a religious commitment for me by the way; and sorry this is so long, I have been holding it in for some time

Answer 1

What's the point of "saving" yourself? It's not like you're going to run out of s*x drive by having s*x and then you wouldn't have any left for when you're married. It's fair to wait for someone you love, but marriage is a little much. Unless you aren't dating anyone who you couldn't see yourself marrying immediately, then any seriously dateable person should be doable.

Answer 2

Yes!I think you should save it till marriage.

Answer 3

No you arent Im just like you except younger and female.You must keep it til then ,unless. I feel so different and out of place with my friends when they talk wbout s*x, parties, drinking and stuff because i dont do those things! in the end its all worth it. PLUS ITS GOOD TO BE THE LAST BREED! THAT MEANS YOU ARE RARE. ppl like rare things/people

Answer 4

At least get a bj.Their so awesome :)

Answer 5

"ok. I am a 25 year old, a g*y"-----fixed!

Doooood

1) find girl

2) Jam it in.

3) Welcome back to being a man.

Answer 6

well, it's really wonderful/normal that a man save his virginity for his special one. if u make this decision, yur wife would appreciate this. U R THE MAN and THE TRUE HUSBAND.

Answer 7

You should save it, because your wife will appreciate it someday, especially if she saves it for you. You will feel just dirty if you don't save it and she saves it for you. You won't feel equal to her, and your first time with her will feel tainted.

    It may feel pointless, but not to the woman who will belong to you forever someday.

Answer 8

You should get into the field immediately

I don't get why you are saving until u r 25.