Should I say something about my friend ignoring me?

Question

I've been best friends with 2 girls from my swim club for 3 years now, and we've always stuck together. One of them, Steph, doesn't come all the time, so it's often just me and my other best friend Claire. Recently, she's been "flirting" with a guy in our lane and when she's with him, she just completely ignores me. Before we'd have private conversations in the showers but now she's just laughing at all his jokes and blanks me. She never leaves the showers with me anymore, but stays in the showers as long as that guy does. I have no problem with her having other "friends", I'm not clingy at all, but I just feel sorta left out. My other friend Steph notices it too. Should we say something or not?

Answer 1

of course you should say something. let her know how you 2 ladies feel about what she is doing and that is wrong. if you just let it be, you guys will turn sour to her and she will just keep on doing it.

Answer 2

Im going through same sort of thing :) Think this is the age where best friends drift apart, to their own lives with people that could be potential future husbands ;) Cant really expect your friends to be all best friendy for the rest of their lives, and going out with guys is something new and exciting and shell probs feel grown up. Trust me she wont even realise what shes doing, therell come a day where this boy will break her heart and shell need her friends. Then shell realise she left you out and hopefully learn from her mistakes. But dont just run to her like a puppy when she wants you. You have other friends and your own life too :)  

Answer 3

whats the point its not like she does not know she is doing it.

find some new friends leave her to it