http://au.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=ApeWYANuS1MjmnUmgmKNSnfh5gt.;_ylv=3?qid=20080214163113AAxNbRs
http://au.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AjHMqqNF6pDb13XZC1K4y2Ph5gt.;_ylv=3?qid=20080124140515AAOSU37
the details are contained in those questions but there has been a development, my sister has gotten engaged and has been for 3 weeks, I only just found out last night from my mum, my sister didn't even bother to tell me!
Mum knows, my step mum knows my brothers know but not my dad, my sister and the guy have only been dating about 6 months and she's talking about moving in with the guy in about 6-8 months, my sister says she's going to tell dad in her own time, however if I know my sister that usually means that she's not going to tell him, if I leave it dad's not going to find out till she moves in with the guy which the longer it's left the more hurt and upset dad is going to be that his blessing wasn't asked for and he'll be angry that his wife (our step mum) knew and hasn't said anything either and his ex-wife (mum) was asked for the blessing (not him) and gave it cause she doesn't give a rats a what her children do.
dad had a very traditional religious upbringing he won't be at all pleased I can imagine, so for his own well being should I say something?
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