Should I send another Thank You card?

Question

My bridal shower was yesterday. One of the attendees had ordered something from the registry and had it shipped directly to my house about a month ago instead of bringing it to the shower. I sent her a Thank You card upon receipt of the gift. Should I send her another Thank You for attending my shower or is it unnecessary?

Answer 1

I don't think it's "necessary" but its a really nice idea.  Just a quick, "thanks for coming, it was so good to see you" always makes a person smile.  

Answer 2

If the gift was specifically for the shower, and you thanked her for the "shower" gift, then I don't think it's necessary.

If you wanted to cover your bases, though, you could always send her a "thank you for attending" card, and briefly say at the end, "and again, thank you for your very generous gifts. We still love it, of course."

Answer 3

If you have extras, sure, send her another card thanking her for coming and thanking her again for the gift (and be specific about the gift - I always laugh at the thank you cards I get where they just put some generic word down and I wonder if they even remember what I brought).

If these were expensive thank you cards or you really don't have enough, I wouldn't see it as a problem. If you already sent her a thank you card, you're good.

If she is someone whose email you have, just drop her a line through that or maybe you'll see her around town. Just say a little something to let her know you appreciated not only the gift but also the fact that she came to the shower.

It's always better to be safe than sorry and wonder if you really should have sent a card. If anything, if you have specific wedding thank you cards and already sent her one of those, send her just a random thank you card or a short note on a nice piece of stationary.

Answer 4

I would absolutely send her another thank you note simply to say thank you for attending your shower, and then add thank you again so very much for the gift that we received prior to the shower. It is much better to be thanked twice than to not be thanked at all. Congrats on your wedding!!!

Answer 5

No additional thank you is needed. I'm sure you thanked her for coming when she left the shower. You're fine.

Answer 6

It's not necssary, but a nice thought. You could put "It was great to see you! Thanks again for the lovely gift.".

I think, since you already sent her a thank you card, you don't have to do it again, but it's nice.