Should I send her flowers for her 18th?

Question

Hi, ive just turned 18 not too long ago and ive been really close friends to this girl now for nearly a year and a half. We are really close friends and i do have a thing for her, she is seeing someone but does know that I like her. This has never affected our relationship but we never speak about our realtionship with each other outright either lol. I was thinking it would be a nice idea for her 18th birthday to surprise her with flowers delivered to her door anonymously. Do you think this is a bit much, or over presumptuous as im unsure how she would react if she found out it was me? Do you think this is too much for a "friend" to send? Any female response would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.

Answer 1

I don't think you should send the flowers #1 because she does have a boyfriend and #2 you don't gain anything sending them anonymously she doesn't know they are from you and so you won't really get the response you are really looking for, but what i do suggest you do is talk to her about your feelings put it out their and see what happens if you just do these sweet things without her knowing who the gesture is form then you will never know how she feels and you will never get the girl.good luck and i hope that she feels the same.

Answer 2

I think this is a lovely idea. Especially being her 18th. This is a very special age. :)

What flower will you be choosing?? different flowers mean different things and colour also symbolise things. Take this into consideration. Also check website for help with this. x*x

EDIT: This website looks good. Have a browse and see what takes your fancy but doesnt come across too flirty so maybe no roses. Just simple pretty flowers.

http://www.clareflorist.co.uk/meanings.a...

Answer 3

I think sending her flowers would be great but you should put your name on the card and say something like wishing you a good day. You don't want to seen too romantic since she does have a boyfriend. Also don't send her a huge bouquet. Send her SOME nice looking flowers with a nice friendly message and you'll be fine. :)