Should I sleep with her?

Question

Um, so I'm single. L*****n.

And my friend is bisexual. We've had a thing for each other, for aaages. And her boyfriend, who I am also friends with, has said that because they're gonna be together for a while, and she really wants to experiment with her sexuality, that he wouldn't care if I slept with her, as long as we were open about it with him... In fact, I'm the only one he would trust her with.

Uhuh. Now, I am extremely attracted to her. But she's my friend. And he's my friend. And it's all very, very complicated.

I have no clue what to do. Yeah. Advice?

Answer 1

OK the guy in me says....WOW that's the perfect situation, I WISH my wife had a woman friend she would sleep with....I am getting turned on thinking about you or my wife :-D.

The Yahoo Answers person in me says, why not? If you like each other and both want to do it...and her man is cool with it you might as well try it. If after the first time you don't like it then chalk one up to experimentation. If you love it and so does she...then you have a good s*x life with her, and she has a great one with you and her bf. If later on you wanted to expand your choices, you could have a very trusted group of friends for a threesome...even if you didn't want his "parts" you could always just pleasure her and let her pleasure you and he could help you on her. I hope that made sense...sorry but the guy part of me is taking over and I am imagining all of this while I type.  

Answer 2

HA! First of all I'M a L*****n and if her boyfriend knew what I know he wouldn't speak so soon about not caring if you two slept together. Too many times have I seen this very thing happen and he ends up pouting and sad when she starts creeping off on her own time to get some because she liked it too much. Then he'll be pissed at you like you came up with the whole idea! If you value your friendship with either one, I suggest you put it WAY out of your mind. Maybe if circumstances were different, it wouldn't be a big deal, but this is too much. Then who knows, you may discover some underlined feelings that you never knew existed until you slept with her. Sounds like a big nasty mess you should avoid.  

Answer 3

It depends how you feel about s*x. Like personally. If you see it as a huuuge deal then you shouldn't do it. I've had s*x with my best friend quite a few times and it hasn't ruined our friendship because neither of us see s*x as a huge deal. But i do find that when i have s*x with girls i get really attatched to them normally so you could end up liking her a lot more. It seems as though you'll lose the guy friend if you start having s*x with this girl. Even though he says hes cool with it.

Answer 4

hey he said he's ok with it. But I think you shouldn't because you have feelings for her and well that would complicate things.

Answer 5

Do NOT be the object of some males sick fantasy. Its obvious thats really what he wants.

And DONT be a science project either.

He probably said 'sure sleep with her" thinking "..my gf will never leave me for a girl."

If you want her, then dont "agree" becuase her bf gave you "permission", you just should try and create feelings in her that make her want to have a deeper relationship with you. :)

Or if you are not that "into" her, then just dont do it (dont want to ruin your friendship like I said for some males idea of what his gf can/cant do) if she wants you she would also do something.

Answer 6

Well, it depends. It seems black and white. Don't do it. It could f*** up your friendship, right? With both of them?

But you seem tempted by her. How do the three of you view s*x? I mean, is it an expression of intimacy or... fun?

Is it just casual I mean?

If she really wants to experiment, maybe you should do it, without having actual s*x? Just kissing and stuff, nothing below the belt.

Answer 7

If you really want her go on !

and make her feel really good and then let her decide !

don't worry , If you keep bad or negative thoughts in your mind the outcomes are always negative.

If you have positive and good thoughts about it , then you'll always have a positive outcome .

It's known a s the law of attraction , It's the law of the universe ,

At first , I thought was a waste ! but, when I really tried it out it seemed to work , Even Oprah Winefrey and many other people try it !

It's" the Secret "

It's actually a book or DVD by Rhonda Byrne . It's AMAZING !

here's a few lines from it ,

Ask

Know what you want and ask the universe for it. This is where you need to get clear on what it is you want to create and visualise what you want as being as 'real' as possible.

Believe†  

Feel and behave as if the object of your desire is on its way. Focus your thoughts and your language on what it is you want to attract. You want to feel the feeling of really 'knowing' that what you desire is on its way to you, even if you have to trick yourself into believing it – do it.

Receive

Be open to receiving it. Pay attention to your intuitive messages, synchronicities, signs from the Universe to help you along the way as assurance you are on the 'right' path. As you align yourself with the Universe and open yourself up to receiving, the very thing you are wanting to manifest will show up.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Secret_...

Answer 8

This is going nowhere fast. You don't sleep with your friends, it's a simple as that. If she really loved her boyfriend, she wouldn't do it and I think she is a bit questionable for even seriously considering it, to be quite frank.

Answer 9

Don't do it, sleeping with her could ruin your friendship completely