Should I still hang-out with my friends or find new ones?

Question

I have 3 friends and their names are Lai,Lorenza,Venus.Venus transfered to my school in March something.I befriended her and we became close friends.I'm still friends with Lai and Lorenza.So,I let Venus hang-out with my friends.Venus and Lorenza have same taste in music.Ever since Venus started hanging out with us.She started treating me like c*ap.She's nice to Lai but not to me.So Venus told me that the three of them are doing a project(which doesn't exist&&I knew it from the start).She told my friends to ditch me.Lorenza apologized to me because they can't say no to Venus.Lorenza told me she felt bad after that so they don't ditch me anymore.THEY BETRAYED ME!!!!I'm still mad about this.Lai told me everything on the phone about everything.Venus apologized to me.I forgive Lorenza but not Venus.After what she did,I can't forgive her.I'm usually a little forgiving but it depends on what they did to me.If I forgive Venus she'll do it again and tell my friends what to do.What should I do???

Should I still hang-out with them?My friends like Venus because she's fun and Venus doesn't like me.I could tell.She textes me on my phone and then say sh*t straight to my face.

Answer 1

Dump them. Venus is obviously not a real friend. But Lai and Lorenza should have stuck up for you. Thats what any good friend should do.  

Answer 2

id say try to show Lia and Lorenza that Venus isnt that great of a friend, because if she did it to you she could do it to them, if they listen and agree then thats good, but if they dont then maybe try be be friends but maybe make new best friends

Answer 3

just find new friends obviously their a**holes and are backstabbers

Answer 4

Okay well number 1 Venus is treating you awefully, but u already know that I'm guessing! Well you need to talk to Lai and Lorenza. That will test who is truly your friend. If neither listens to you, then yes you should find other friends. If one listens then that person is your true friend. If they both keep listening to Venus, just find others. Its not ur fault, people change when they meet others and Venus is probably haing a bad effect on them. Either way, surround yourself by people who treat you like you deserve !! =D

Answer 5

well since ur frens have treat u like u not their frens, i think it is better 4u 2 find n hang out wif a new friends..

Answer 6

The only thing that comes to mind sweetie, is that the things you said that happened, I'm sorry but I guess I'm just not as forgiving as you, the point is, YOU took in this venus girl, you tried to befriend her,intoduce her to your friends,and help her feel welcome, in the end , she betrayed you,and so did your "friends".. My advice would to move on and find new "friends". The older you get, you will realize that the "friends" you have in school, you won't even know or hear from 10 years from now...It hurts,but it's art of growing up.. it happens, the fact is your "friends," including venus, will find themselves very alone, with nobody to turn to, in the end... You ALWAYS reap what you sew, so don't worry, You will see revenge, at some point in time..maybe not tommorrow,or next year, but youy will.. Good things come to those who wait sweetie, always does.

Answer 7

Find new ones, they're not true friends.