Me and my husband are married for 2 years and 4 months now. For two years that we've been on the relationship, I was the only one who was working. I got pregnant and gave birth to a baby boy. I shoulder everything, all the expenses, rents, etc. He decided to stay in the house and took care of our baby. I work and he was the one who took of everything, baby and part of the household. Recently, I observed some changes on his attitude. He is always irritated with me. We always have arguments on how he treated our son. He is not in the mood most of the time and come to a point that he always yell on the kid and sometimes slap the baby and some mistreatment. Whenever we argue, he is always the one who initiate a separation. He always packed his things and bring it home ( to his biological family ). Everytime we have misunderstanding, he is always like that. He always threatens me of separation. Come to a point that I almost begged him so he won't leave us. Recently, we had arguments again. He did that same usual act, he packed his things, went out of the apartment and never came back. Leaving me and my kid in the apartment.
What I did was to leave the apartment too and went home to my mom, I seek help from my family, I work and no one will take care of my baby. Me and husband are neighbors. I always sees him. My husband never even bothered to inquire about us, if we are ok or what. Its like he abandoned us. He is currently living with his biological family. A week after the separation, I initiated the communication between us. I talked to him about his plans. He told me that he will have seek job first and work to save money and after that he will get us back. I suggested a reconcillation that we can be together while we both work, but he declined. I lend him cellphone so we can communicate everytime. But it seems that he doesnt care, he doesnt even bother to call or text me. I am the one who's paying for the phone bill. In other words, I always initiates everything. I am the one who's bridging the gaps between us. Whenever I asked him if he loves me, he gets irritated. Any question that I ask him, he dont answer it. I asked him if he has still plans of getting us back, he said yes. But I can't feel the sincerity on his words. I have the feeling that He is just making me believe that we will be soon together but I guess its not one of plans anymore. Whenenever he talks to me, I can't feel any respect anymore. He doesnt care for me. He doesnt even bother to know how is our son going. And worst, he is trying to return to me the cellphone that I lent him days ago. He really want to cut the communication between us. What will I do?
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