Should I stop communicating with him? Part 2?

Question

I met this guy a year ago. He invited me out a few time then but for some reason or another we never met up. We have kept in touch online via IMs. Every now and then we'd end up talking online for hours sharing thoughts. He is very busy and travel for his work quite often. He never calls me, I never call him. I went offline for a while because I was tired of this, a couple months at a time. When he finally sees me online, he'd say hi and ask why I haven't been on, then I would make up some excuses then we'd end up continuing our conversations and repeat the same cycle. Does he not get it? Why can't he call me to talk when I was MIA for months if he wondered what was up with me? I find myself getting really tired of this, and am uncomfortable with the kind of closeness we are developing online. Would it be wrong to cease communications with him? I do enjoy our conversations and think he is a great person, but I don't want this to stay in my head so much I want to move on..... Guys, what thoughts you have on this, and ladies, what would you do?

Part 2: I just wanted add that he's invited me out but I didn't feel I know him enough to respond to that, and he also ask me to call him if I wanted to talk, but I'd prefer that he takes the lead....

Answer 1

yes,i would stop talking to him.seems hes just playing games with your head.dont think hes what he says he is he might just be married or worst ..think long and hard about keeping this going

Answer 2

Why is it that he has to call you.  That phone goes both ways.  If you don't want to have a relationship with him via the internet then don't.  Tell him so.  Don't play games.  Be honest.

Answer 3

One might think he was married, and that his wife checks his phone, but whatever you got a man who won't comit.  Move on you'll only get hurt.

Answer 4

Personally in your situation i would either ask him to call me over the internet or i would call him yourself. You seem to want the relationship to progress from just chatting across the internet therefore you need to inform him of that. By giving you his number he obviously wants you to call him.