Should I stop my niece from seeing my ex?

Question

So my ex and I were together for 2 years and lived together for about a year. Every second week and we would take my niece for a night or two. She got really close to him and started even calling him uncle. We recently spilt about a month ago and I told her that we couldn't be together , shes only 7 and its hard to explain. Since the break up went sour and messy I have not had contact to him since he left. Recently she has been asking for him , telling me that she misses him and loves him very much and would like to talk or see him. Do I contact him in hope that he will talk to her or do I not and tell her the truth that he might not want to talk to you because of me!! Please help my sister and family have left the decision totally up to me !!!

Answer 1

You should let her see him. Put your own feeling aside for her.  

Answer 2

well its ok for her to miss him.i think if he really missed her he would try to contact her parents.but over all i do not see him wanting anything to do with her.like he only cared for her because you do.so hes moved on.she will get over him.

Answer 3

Just call him and tell him that she has been asking for him but if he does not want to see her because of the situation you understand.

Answer 4

tell her... she is small now.. but what if she grows up!

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Answer 5

Tell her that you are sorry, but he will no longer be around and that he has left and is not coming back because you two are no longer together. He is no longer part of your life. She will just have to get over it.