Should I stop walking and talking like a femme guy?

Question

I have pressure here at home to stop talking so femme, well that is me putting it nicely, you can imagine the nouns they have to refer to it as. This comes from the male members of the family and this is the only personality that I am comfortable with, I have to roll my eyes all the time, move my hands from the wrist down only and walk like something is up my a**s. I really do know that it sounds and looks horrible and don't see most guys acting like that here, but it is so hard to try to carry on a more masculine personality.

Answer 1

not if you don't want to

Answer 2

be a man

Answer 3

it doesnt matter what anyone else thinks as long as ur happy..be who u r dont let anybody change you.. =]

Answer 4

well.. if you feel you can act masculine.. if you are concious of your way of acting.. but most of time.. we don't know. I act something like that sometimes.. I am not aware.. I know it's my human nature.. girls told me I should act like a man.. but I am a  man.. even I am g*y and they don't know that I am g*y.. they think THAT i am.. BUT i DENY.. so my idea is.. I told them.. everygirl has their own taste.. so some girls would like an effeminate guy.. I dont know but all it's possible

Answer 5

I think you should keep acting like yourself for people like me.I hide my true self all the time because I'm so insecure of what people will say to me.Your my idol people who aren't afraid to be themselves.I'm starting to break out of my conformist mould and be myself more and it feels so much more...right to me.I think you shouldn't listen to what any family members say because there not helping you get anywhere at all.Just take this with you,people are always going to say something but,remember once we grow up and find our true selves we laugh at our insecurities and see how truely stupid we were for not being our selves sooner.Once we leave this earth for the Astral Plain nothing about this earth matters from then on and it's about your self finding the true answer to life.Once we die our journey doesn't end we keep on trucking.It's sad but,nothing on earth matters because the true journey on earth is to find out what you want to do before you leave here.After that theres a new journey.

Answer 6

Keep doing it to make homophobes mad lol , thats what i would do. Besides, If you are just a femme dude you can't help it, I mean I think it would be pretty hard to try to walk around and talk in a deeper voice all the time if that's not who you were.