Should I take her out 4 a meal?

Question

I ave met some1 new and am wondering weather i should go 4 a pub lunch or do a fancy resturant

Answer 1

somewhere good, with nice food, staff and thats a friendly place, but not too formal, a first date shouldnt mean a too informal, keep it nice and she will be impressed by where you take her, i take it you wish to pay for the meal? dont be offended if she refuses some women dont like to have the bloke pay, come to a compromise by going halfers. oh, the thought makes me want to be wined and dined too!! good luck

Answer 2

Look for a gastropub in your area. Better quality food without the pressure of a restaurant.

Answer 3

what ever you feel more comfortable with.

don't try and be flashy to impress them.

i like the sound of the pub lunch'

much more of an informal atmosphere

Answer 4

Pub-lunch.

Answer 5

Find one where you are both comfortable.

Answer 6

lunch first

Answer 7

a casual light lunch at a place with good food and good embiance would suffice....

no need fancy.....

Answer 8

do the whole personnal touch make a basket of food, wine ect its much more fun even if u go to the zoo or park at least u can talk

Answer 9

Take her 4 a pub lunch.... make her feel comfortable

Answer 10

well if you ask me I'll take the pub lunch because you don't have to spend alot of many and at the same time it's romantic....

Answer 11

Depends on the woman.  Is she a more upmarket type girl, or just a good chic.  Some women get their nose put out if they don't perceive the bloke's prepared to spend some money on her - which is quite an expectation, as why should he if he is unsure whether he wants to see her again.  A pub lunch sounds great for a first date, but be sure to tell her when you invite her that it is a pub lunch.  My personal preference for a first date is some bread rolls, prawns, and a bottle of wine down the beach - friendly and also semi romantic.  If she is interested in you then she won't care where you invite her.

Answer 12

Start with lunch.

Answer 13

depends what you are after

Answer 14

NOT a noisy pub, but somewhere informal.

Answer 15

A restaurant is a bit more intimate.....

Answer 16

Take her where you, like but dont write her any love letters.

Answer 17

Do a restaurant if you can, but not a fancy one or she'll either be embarrassed or will wonder whether you're just an unrealistic romantic.

That is a man who thinks that spending money on 'flash' things and 'taking control' is the right way to impress a new woman.

As a first off you should either find a good pub (one that you know for preference) where they serve a good lunch in a non-threatening atmosphere, or take her to a moderate restaurant for an evening meal. As a very rough guide if the restaurant charges more than £25 per head for two courses + drinks then you're going OTT.

If it works out then you can consider somewhere posher next time - if she wants.

Your date would consider it very courteous if you found out what sort of food and environment she liked before taking her out. It would be a ghastly mistake to go Chinese if she preferred Italian for example. Maybe she likes carverys such as Toby. Try asking.

Answer 18

Take her to lunch on your first date.

Let her tell you all about herself while you remain a mystery.

Part company before dark after making a date for the following evening for dinner.

Remember, women like a man who's in control.

Answer 19

Well which do you feel more comfortable with, the whole idea of a first date is to get to know each other and enjoy each others company. So if you enjoy Restaurants then make it a restaurant of if a Pub lunch is more you then go for that. you need to be able to give your date your full attention and not being intimidated by your surroundings

Answer 20

ive never taken a lady on first date meal off my choice allways let her choose you be suprised how often  they pick one  they nether been befor but heared good things

Answer 21

For a first date, I would go for the pub lunch, a more loose and easy atmosphere.

Good luck, let's hope it leads to beautiful things  ;-)

Answer 22

go someware casual like a pub lunch pizza hut ect nothing to heavy or she will feel overwhelmed

Answer 23

I might suggest that you make it a causal place to eat, it can still be a 2 star restaurant but it would be rather informal to take them for a formal dinner when you have just met.

I would suggest a place that make reservations and would have a table held for you so that you can have one picked out ahead of time in a quiet corner so you could have a good conversation. After you have been out a few times you might as if they would enjoy a more formal dinner, some people are not impressed by formal dining and others do not like to  have to get all dressed up to go out for dinner. And then some would like to see how much you could spend on a bottle of Merlot or Dom.

Best Regards.

Answer 24

If she give her consent, why not?

Answer 25

somewhere with genuinely good food.

Answer 26

pub lunch then restaurant if that goes ok

Answer 27

If you have just met them then i wouldn't go too overboard, maybe just a drink or something, or pub lunch or what ever. I would just lay off the really fancy restaurants for a few dates yet, you don't want to scare them away.

Answer 28

fancy restaurant first impressions are important. no rush