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Should I take my daughter out of her preschool?

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My daughter just started preschool in Dec'06 she was 31/2 then. Her teacher was very nice and great with jacy. Well this summer she has a diff teacher and I dont think Im too crazy about her.I took jacy this morn I was holding her, walked into the classroom and the teacher just takes her out of my arms and looked away. Jacy always gives me a kiss & hug b4 I leave soo she was crying wanting to give me a kiss and that lady was just turning away from me so I walked over gave her a kiss and tried to tell that teacher were jacy would go after 2pm and she didnt even listen or look my way. Im so used to all the teacher speaking and hugging jacy. Should i take her out for the summer she hates to go now and that is the only teacher this summer for her age. Everyone there loves jacy and is so nice except this lady.

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  1. give the teacher another chance.  Talk to her.  I have learned that things are not always as they appear.  Many times I'd be stewing over something in preschool and after I spoke to his teacher ofcourse after I calmed down it was just a misunderstanding.  

    Good luck


  2. Talk to the teacher first, maybe it was just an off day.  If that doesn't work then go to the Director.

    Good Luck ~CN

  3. I would speak to the Director and let her know you are considering pulling your daughter because of the way this Teacher is rude.

  4. go to the director right away....If I was the director of that school I would want to know this is going on. it is not OK for the teacher to do this....has it happened more than the one time?  If so I would work to get that teacher out of there or have the director speak to her....do not worry about it being harmful to your child as the teacher will not be told who is doing the complaining <as most duirectors will not say>  but also if you are having a problem I am sure other parents are. Also observe other drop offs and see what other parents are doing. Ask them to join you with talking to the director.

    If nothing is done about this then take her out...but give the director time to work on it...I say no more than a week. It sounds like you have a good center but one bad apple...in a good center teachers like her never last as even the other teachers do not like this and will say something to her.

  5. I would talk with that ladies boss.  You are paying good money and that lady should not be rude and insensitive. If the boss won't do anything then take your daughter out of preschool.

  6. If you're in the U.S., I believe there has to be both a lead teacher and an assistant teacher.  There should also be a Director or Supervisor at the site.  First talk to the teacher about your feelings, then go to the director or supervisor -- whoever is in charge.  If it doesn't stop immediately, I thoroughly agree with the "summer vacation" idea someone else suggested.  Child care workers and preschool teachers must be held accountable for their actions and must love and respect  the children and also respect the parents.

  7. Speak to the Principle. Or try to talking to her.

  8. OUT!

    she's got 18 years of school before her....preschool isn't an prerequisite and if she cant talk well enough to tell you exactly what this lady does during the day to make her feel bad or uncomfortable she shouldn't be there anyway.Just think of it like this...when our children are that small,we depend SOLELY on our guts to protect them since they cant fully verbalize their feelings....so if your gut says....aw heck no! your "baby" should go!

  9. I would talk to the teacher first. Tell her your concerns, and how Jaci was treated before she arrived.

    Warning though, If she acts this way in front of you, I bet she is even colder to Jaci when you are not around.

  10. First talk to whoever is in charge. Summer help can be hard to get and they may have had to settle for someone who is really not qualified. If the problem continues,and you have a safe place for her to be, by all means take her out. Call it her summer vacation, just like the big kids.

  11. you should talk to this lady and ask her what her problem is...in a nice way. oh how is there only one teacher her age? i don't think thats possible. anyways if u dont find a better teacher u should take her out of prek.

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