I am pretty shy person. I was flirting with a guy in my neighborhood on three occasions because I had a crush on him when I first saw him. We are both in our late 20's. He made eye contact and smile to show interest when he sees me. We haven't talked to each other. I casually ask my parents if they know anything much about him and they said he is nice, talkative, and has a girlfriend. I realize that it would be a mistake to pursue him because I never had serious relationship, I doubt I can compare well to his girlfriend, and I have shy personality. I have never dated a neighbor. When I went to get the mail from a shared mailbox, I was surprised to see him there when I turn around to go back home. He was out jogging and probably saw me. I ignored him so he wouldn't want to talk. Later, I overheard my parents mention that he told them that I didn't want to talk to him and seemed upset. They didn't tell me about it. I worry that I rejected him without giving him a chance. Does this mean I rejected a guy even though he never ask me out and may still have a girlfriend?? What he said made me feel bad for flirting with him then ignoring him but the issue with his girlfriend is always in my head. I never thought about the rejection issue. I wonder if the feeling is worse if I was dating my neighbor and we break up. Has any of you experience a neighbor who flirts with you then get mad when you stop doing it?
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