Should I tell her he is cheating on her?

Question

Well, here is a bit of the story...my housemate first got together with this girl and she is really nice and then he broke up with her and she asked him to be just his u know...buddy...then they got back together and all this time he has been driving her car to the gym and been living with her and stuff. And last month he told us he wanted to move to england in 2 months and we all kinda joked that he would leave this girl just before he moves and we were right he told me 3 days ago that they broke up and only been having s*x but i guess the girl loves him and is blind so all this time she has been doing stuff for him like lending him the car and picking up to go to work (they work together) and booking the flight tickets for him.

And last night he had the nerve to tell me that he met someone online and that he planned to fly there to have s*x with her for a few weeks before he has to fly to england and he said" i feel really bad doing this" but had a smile on his face. And even showed me the picture of the girl--she sent it to his phone and it was her in bikini.

And his ex doesnt know it for sure. So im thinking i wanna tell her but maybe text her on someone's phone cuz then maybe she doesnt have to be so nice to him anymore (letting him using her car) and maybe wake up? But then it is not my business. But i dont feel right knowing this. His ex even called him and left a message that she changed the flight for him (he must have asked her to change the date of the flight...he probably has lied about reason but the real reason is he wants to go have s*x with that girl)

And he said it to my face that the reason they broke up because she is not his "soulmate" which is a lot of bullshit because he only wants to travel alone and without any commitment. (meaning he can root anyone he wants without having to feel like he has a girlfriend)

What can i do? I asked my boyfriend and he doesnt think its not a good idea because...1st the guy is moving away soon and his ex will move on without having to go through this nasty feeling if i decide to tell her

2nd she might not believe me if she is that dumb

3rd its not my business

But i feel bad seeing her at our house everyday and he was all like babe this baby that but he's been cheating on her well technically they are not together anymore but his ex doesnt know the reason he changed his flight (instead of mid sep to begining of sep)

And i feel bad cuz his ex is a really nice girl and i like her.

Would you tell her??? Or would u just leave it??

Answer 1

first I would tell him he disgusts me  then I would tell her and let the chips fall where they may

Answer 2

I'm not going to read all that!

Answer 3

it is a dilemma. but as you said, it's none of your business. don't tell her...

Answer 4

Tell her the whole truth.  She has every right to know that he`s cheating on her.

Answer 5

Don't tell her, you'll betray your friend's trust. If his ex just wanted him for s*x in the first place, she doesn't have morals and would probably be too dumb to understand the whole story.

Answer 6

Don't tell her.  Perhaps he will not come back to ruin her life.

Answer 7

I would tell him that he is a jerk and to get out of your house. I wouldn't tell the girl because she sounds like she is oblivious and wouldn't believe you anyway. Anyone that would allow themselves to be treated like she is allowing herself to be treated needs professional help. Stay out of it.

Answer 8

EWWW !!!!! WHY IN THE WORLD DID HE DO THAT???? I THINK YOU SHOULD, GIRL !!!

Answer 9

TELL HER!

honestly, it's guys like this that ruin girls trust in blokes and it sounds like she is completely smitten with him and is hoping that by doing all this stuff for him maybe he'll decide she is the one after all.

She deserves to know what type of guy she's in love with.