Should I tell him I think I'm pregnant?

Question

I think I'm pregnant, and I'm going to take a test tomorrow. My boyfriend just moved out of town, and I wont be moving for a few more months. Do I tell him I'm worried, I don't want to freak him out or make him panic. Should i just take the test and tell him if it's positive? I'm dreading talking to him tonight....

What do you think?

Answer 1

Take the test first. There's no point in causing a panic if it's negative. That will only freak him out and may make him less eager to have s*x.

Answer 2

Why not take a test now? I'd wait til you know for sure... otherwise you'll both be worried.  

Answer 3

Take the test first...  

Answer 4

Yes take the test first and them tell but weather you took the test or not he should not have problem becuz he had s*x with you it should be something you both should take full responsibility for.....

Answer 5

I am going to assume that you were not trying to get pregnant, is that correct? If you were trying I would tell him no questions asked. I was with my husband for 7 years before we got married and I had a scare once and I told him and we went through that together but we were really close. So I guess it really depends on your relationship. Hope this helps.  

Answer 6

I'm not sure why all these people are telling you to wait so you don't stress him out...  You didn't get yourself pregnant so if it is a stressful situation for you then you should absolutely share the news with him when you talk to him tonight.  He may be able to talk it out with you and calm you down and make you feel better about the whole thing.  And if not atleast you weren't stressed about keeping it a secret ontop of the stress you already have.

Answer 7

i personally wouldnt mention it until i got a positive result.. there is no reason to stress him out for no reason.. i dont know if you want to be pregnant or not, but either way i would just wait until you take the test.

Answer 8

I agree with what others said, take the test first and if it's positive than tell him. That's what I did when I got pregnant with our second child. I didn't tell my husband till I was sure that the test was positive before telling him. I didn't want him to worry if I wasn't pregnant. Take care!

Answer 9

Take the test before you tell him so he does not freak/.  

Answer 10

Definately take the test first.

Answer 11

There is no good served by telling him before you get tested. If you are negative you might want to find time to discuss "what if" so you will know more in the future.

Answer 12

take the test before you talk to him.

No use getting yourself and him worked up over potentially nothing.  

Answer 13

Depends on what type of relationship you guys have.

That's your choice.  

Answer 14

If the test really looks like a for sure positive, then I would tell him.   I know it sucks- but really you shouldn't be keeping that as a secret from him.  That may make him more angry!

Answer 15

Take the test first.  No point in discussing maybes.  Find out and take it from there

Answer 16

Before we set off the poor guy into a world of chaos, definitely confirm your pregnancy first.  At that point, depending on when you will see him next and how you think he will handle the news, plan a good time to calmly tell him your news.

Answer 17

Take the test first. There is no reason to worry him when he is so far away if you don't even know for certain yet.  

Answer 18

Well if u are pg he shouldnt be mad. It takes 2 to make a baby. Maybe make the surprise cute and let him know your so happy and can't wait to become a mommy:)

Answer 19

Don't tell him until you KNOW if you are or not. And if you are not TRYING  to get pregnant then be more careful huh?