Should I tell him he took my virginity? ?

Question

So I'm 15 and had s*x with a 17 year old guy. He has gotten around and is cocky. I had s*x with him not too long ago. He took my virginity,but I didn't tell him that night... I kinda want to tell him,but I don't know if it would be a good idea?! I also think I have more feelings for him then I should. My friends say to get over him,but they also don't know he took my virginity! What do I do?

Answer 1

Even if you do tell him, its not going to change how he feels about you. You're both young and sounds like he's wants to go "around" a bit more. I don't see a happy ending here, but talk to him and tell him how you feel. But don't have your hopes up with him.

Answer 2

This is the problem with losing your virginity to someone who doesn't really care about you.

Now you feel kind of abandoned, etc, you need to move on, your friends are right.

Answer 3

I did the same thing. I had s*x with my guy friend and didn't tell him I was a virgin. I thought it would just be fun and I didnt think I really cared about him. Later on I was jealous to find out who he was talking too and so on.Bottom line whoever you sleep with, especially the 1st one you are going to be attached too. I never told him however and I don't regret it, Ive moved on and have been with my guy for a year and a half and the 1st still tries to talk to me.