Should I tell him.....?

Question

I really like my guy friend for about a year now, but I was afraid to tell him b/c he has been getting over a breakup with long time g/f. He was sending me mixed signals and sort of ditched our group for another one. He said he would be "back to normal" by fall. I tried to get over him, but CANT. Should I just tell him how I feel so I can move on? If so, when should I tell him? RIght away?

Answer 1

Something's fishy ... how does he know he will be better by fall?  

Answer 2

You can tell him how you feel and ask if he feels anything for you or did, but be prepared for his rejection.  If he ditched your group for another, then there is something that he didn't like about you and your group.  Sounds like he has moved on and is over you, but you think about him night and day.  I have been there before.  If it will make it easier for you to get him off your mind once and for all, then go ahead and tell him.  It is up to you.