Should I tell his wife that her husband is cheating her with a collegue in his office?

Question

Hello to all,

At my wokplace, there is a driver named Gino Derougeur who is having an affair with a leisure officer named Soni Ramlall. I am writing their true names hoping that his wife or any other person might recognise these persons. This relationship has been going on since quite long and I am being more and more disgusted with these two. The thing which disgust me the most is that the guy's wife was pregnant while he was having an affair with that woman. Each time, I talked to that woman, she justified her act. She used her unhappy marriage, her violent husband, her hardships in life as excuses that give her the right to have an affair. She says zat she loves her husband and this man. I feel zat by keeping my mouth shut I am participating indirectly in their sin and this is unjust for his wife. This man even takes this woman at his place under the cover of being her friend.So his wife already know her husband's mistress. I know you would probably tell me zat it's none of my business but at the same time I think that his wife deserves to know the truth. Moreover this guy takes her to his home, this is too much. Please can you give me some ideas on how I should proceed to tell his wife?

Answer 1

If you are tired of being in the middle of it, get out.  Or just give the lady in question a phone call and get it over with.  But be prepared for the consequences!

Answer 2

Well for starters you posted their names on the internet, that wasn't right on your part.

I know, what this man is doing is wrong and this woman is also wrong for participating in this type of relationship, but if you want to help......and being you speak with this woman, tell her (in so many words) how wrong she is.

Just because she been through an abusive marriage and been through difficult situations, but being a w***e isn't the answer.

And what about the innocent faithful wife??? When she finds out she will be hurt!

Good luck! This is too much for me to comment on! This sounds like a soap opera! "All My Children/ As the World Turns"  

Answer 3

maybe you could send an anonymous letter.  and don't use 'zat'.

Answer 4

Just go by for a visit. Tell her your a friend of his and that you want to talk too her about something thats going on at work,or better yet get some pictures of them together doing something if possible and mail them to his wife overnight express,or go to were he lives by following him home someday and then you'll know were to send the pictures. In other words play detective for a day or so and get the evidence you need too prove what you say is true,this way he can not say it is not true,and try a lie his way out of it. Also when you send the pictures to her send a note as well. Tell her you thought she needed  to know what was really going on.