Should I tell my ex that he the father of my baby??

Question

My ex raheem iz da father of my baby boy im carryin rite now should i tell him?

Answer 1

First off, you must have cared enough about him to make a baby, you just don't like the way he treats you. I suggest anger management classes for him, family council for the both of you. Women seems to think that the child they carry is their's and their's alone. very selfish line of thought. It is his child too, and he is and will always be that child's father. So to be fair to the child, who never asked to be born under these circumstances, has the right to know and love both the mother and the father. You are starting out by not even fighting for your child's right to know his father. Shame on you. Not good parenting at all. If you are only after the Child support checks and could care less about the rest, you should get a paternity test done ASAP, so he has to start paying. You state you don't want him in your lives, maybe you just need a little family therapy. Try it for your son's sake. Being a parent means sacrificing, your time, emotions, feelings towards others to do what is right for this child. Isn't your son worth it? Are you too selfish to try it? Is your son, 'your dolly and no one can play with it'? But, by all means, take the money and run, go on welfare, turn the boy against his father, take what could be a great situation and throw it out the window. That just make you a 'Typical woman'.

Answer 2

YES!!!  Why wouldn't you want him to know? You could go on "Maury" if it is one of those soap opera type deals....LOL!

Answer 3

Unless he's abusive or something, and telling him would be dangerous for you, yes, he has a right to know.  Tell him.

Answer 4

Yes, he is the father and the father deserves to know.  

Answer 5

yes. but call jerry first!

Answer 6

and your calling me a s***k..aaaaaaahahahahaha!

Answer 7

yes but make sure he knows you DO NOT need him there for you.

he has a right to know though.

Answer 8

yes but not until after you've had your baby. don't put yourself at any unecessary risk

Answer 9

yesssss!!!!!!

Answer 10

sorry, but you must have had some kind of idea about what kind of man he was .. and you should not have had a child with him ..This makes me think of the 22  ! yr old girl in texas with 5 !  kids and no !husband....Why do people put  children in a situation that really limits these kid's chances in life ?

Answer 11

If you don't want him in your life are you ready to take care of a baby on your own?  But then if he is a cheater and abuser you would be much better off without him.  Don't tell him, you will be happier.  Give the baby up for adoption and don't put the father's name on the birth certificate.

Answer 12

Yes, he has a right to know. Unless you fear he will hurt you if you tell him.

Answer 13

do wut u think is best for the child